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People in marriage like to look at the flowery world outside, especially men, who always have a hard time finding a desired object before they get married and feel that there are few women for them, but after they get married, instead, they feel that there are many women for them and get ideas they shouldn’t have.
So much so that many men pay a heavy price for this.
So, how are the men who have divorced doing? Can you really live in style after a divorce, as many people say? The actual fact is that you can get rid of the shadow of divorce soon? The following three divorced men honestly truth.
How are the men who got divorced doing? These 3 divorced men tell the big truth
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Mr. Wang, 42 years old. Divorced for 3 years
A gentle and virtuous wife, a heart-saving and lovely child, and a dull and happy life, while I was getting tired of such a life and wanted to try living differently, so I cheated.
At first the cheating was just a playful attitude, but then I became obsessed with that life and completely unable to stop myself. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The most important thing is that the company has a lot of people who are interested in the company’s products.
Three years after the divorce, I am now living a lonely and isolated single life, in fact, I have long regretted it, but I just do not have the face to ask my wife’s forgiveness again.
The first time I saw a woman, I was a little bit of a jerk.
How are the men who got divorced living? These 3 divorced men tell the big truth
Mr. Zhang, 38 years old. Divorced for a year
What you have is never as good as what you can’t have. My wife was my second love interest, and we now have an enviable family with a successful career and happy home. I should reasonably be satisfied, but once again, my first love has come along and caused my heart to waver.
When my first love and I broke up because of long distance, we broke up peacefully and each found our own happiness and had our own families. Last year she called me to say that she was unhappy and now divorced and wanted to meet me. I barely hesitated and decisively said yes. We did something untoward in that meeting and the first love was so good that we both wanted to get back together.
I came clean with my wife and got divorced. After the divorce, my wife hung out with a married friend of mine, and seeing her make that choice, I regretted it, was heartbroken, and felt immense guilt. I knew she was getting back at me, so I broke off all dealings with my first love and tried to pull her out of the abyss. The first thing I did was to get a new one.
I have nothing else to think about now but that she should not wreck herself, get out of the mire as soon as possible, and not do what I regret.
How are all those divorced men doing? These 3 divorced men tell the big truth
Mr. Liu: 38 years old, divorced for 4 years
That year I was 30 years old, on the wrong occasion, the wrong time, and my ex-wife did the wrong thing, in a responsible attitude, we got married. The original thought was that as long as the two people had time together they would surely develop a love for each other over time, but two people with no common topics and different lifestyles would not cross paths even after a long time, and finally we chose to divorce peacefully and let each other go.
Now 4 years after the divorce, we have both found our own happiness. My current wife is 5 years younger than me, but she is gentle and considerate, takes good care of the home, and we have endless conversations and sweet words. We watch movies together, travel together, play games together, work out together, and are basically inseparable in our lives.
I love my current wife very much, and I hope my ex-wife will live a happy and sweet life as I did, and treat that mistake as a memory in this life.
How are all those divorced men doing?
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It is said that happy marriages are similar, while unfortunate marriages are different. In fact, marriage is not a game of cards, reshuffle are required to pay a huge price, whether you are right or wrong. So, regardless of the gender, the cost of divorce is huge, and it will cut an uncoverable scar on its heart, and it takes time to heal.
The end of a marriage is bound to have certain reasons, but what is right and what is wrong is in the past, and it is too late to regret it, the only thing you can do is to know how to reflect, objectively recognize your past right and wrong, and summarize the lessons so that you can start over.
In short, people who are already married should not give up their marriage lightly, and since once you choose to give up, don’t expect to go back. The first thing you need to do is to make sure you know what you are doing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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