Nowadays, many girls are more stressed due to their work, so they do not use more heart in their marriage concerns, and unknowingly, they become older leftover women, and then their families will be more anxious and often appear to rush the phenomenon of marriage. In order to make some of the older leftover women get off as soon as possible, you should usually master some good methods, so how do older leftover women get off?
Secrets of getting off for older women:
1. Close the distance
Close the distance in order to get along better with each other and let him discover your strengths. But only if you already have a goal in mind. Try to get him to join your facebook, so that he is within your “sphere of influence” as a tiger from the mountains and a dragon from the sea.
When he’s in an unfamiliar environment, you’re in a position to take the initiative. The fact that your friends, relatives and friends are constantly promoting your benefits makes it less difficult to take him under your wing.
2, take the initiative to pay the bill
Don’t think it’s a man’s job to pay the bill. Sometimes women need to take the initiative too. Although it’s customary for guys to buy when it comes to money, don’t take that custom for granted.
There are times when it’s necessary for you to pick up the tab so that you don’t feel like you’re always taking advantage of him. You can also buy small gifts for him at the right time. The gifts don’t need to be expensive, but small, subtle gifts can bring you more material and emotional rewards.
3, Dress up
Are you still in the mood for a man who really loves you? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want. Don’t be silly, a man who only values your heart and learning will look at your looks first. The ultimate expression of love is so, but in the beginning stage of love, the visual feelings still dominate. If you can’t get him to feel good about the way you dress and dress, he naturally won’t have the idea to get to know you further.
So older women should learn to dress well, such as wearing different colors and styles of clothing every day, and have some makeup skills to make themselves more attractive to men.
4, play dumb
Although, we always expect women to be smart and pretty. requirements are always to be smarter, prettier, to dress up and to make ourselves better. But not all men like smart women, and women who are too smart will deter men from approaching them.
There are times when playing dumb can have unexpected effects, especially in the presence of knowledgeable men who are fighting all day long and are very mentally exhausted if they continue to play mind games with you. The fact that you are cute and naive can make them feel relaxed instead.
5. Then don’t continue to be reserved. The company has already stepped into the ranks of the older women, meet a satisfactory object to start. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do.
So it’s a good idea to start with his friends and feint at the other guys who are easy to get a hold of first. In the process of interacting with these boys, you can side-step the situation of this boy, but also frequent the places where they are, deepen his impression of you, so that he also knows something about you, and slowly to test whether he has a good feeling for you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
By doing the above, I hope it will help you to get off. And in love do not always, do not give each other their own space, there should be a kind of as if the feeling, can make each other feel your, the importance. The actual fact is that you should always do some snowy things, such as comforting her when she is sad and upset, and often have to show yourself, very confident.