Recently there is a very hot celebrity reality show “Dear Inn”, as the name suggests is a show where several celebrities open an inn and record various interesting stories arising from the celebrity owners and guests. The show was aired and sparked discussions on a variety of topics, including Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingdu’s couple quarreling routine that got a lot of attention from netizens and became a selling point for the show.
In the show, Kan Qingzi always quarrels with her boyfriend for no reason, whether it is a cleaning issue, a meal issue, the two of them always start a couple dislike each other mode. Many female netizens said they saw themselves in Kan Qingzi who usually quarreled with their boyfriends, and many male netizens said they could never understand the reason for their girlfriends’ anger as well as Ji Lingduan. So, why do girls always get angry with their boyfriends for no reason?
In fact, after a few episodes of the show, you will find that girls are not angry for no reason, it’s just that the difference in thinking patterns between men and women leads to guys not being able to understand why girls get angry. Like in the latest episode, the exchange between two girls, Kan and Yang, we can understand why girls will always fight with their boyfriends.
1. Girls are more sensitive and care more about what others think.
Girls tend to be emotional thinkers, so girls will be more susceptible to the influence of their surroundings and will care more about what others think, so many issues that guys don’t realize, girls will care, leading to girls getting angry, yet Boys are unable to understand the situation. The “Dear Inn” organization barbecue that issue reflects this, due to pre-preparation problems, the barbecue did not go smoothly, Ji Lingduan proposed to replace the oven, the boss and guests said no, however, Ji Lingduan insisted, after changing the oven, the barbecue is still not smooth. At this point, Kan sensed that the boss and guests might be unhappy and discouraged Ji Lingduan from giving up the barbecue. After the discouragement was unsuccessful, Kan went to the side to sulk until the barbecue was over. From their later quarrelsome conversation, it is clear that Kan Qingzi, who is sensitive and more considerate, believes that her boyfriend’s insistence on barbecuing inconveniences others, while the big-hearted boy fails to think about the issue, leading to the quarrel.
2. Girls need more companionship and security.
In real life, many girls will fight with their boyfriends because they are addicted to games. In fact, it’s not that girls don’t like their boyfriends to play games, but they don’t like boys to play games when they are with them. Because when the two are together, when the boy’s attention is focused on the game, girls will feel that they are not important to their boyfriends at all and will feel that their boyfriends do not love them. And when guys are addicted to games, they have relatively little time to spend with girls.
In short, girls sometimes always seem to get angry for no reason, but in fact they just want to get their boyfriend’s attention and want him to coax them. So when your girlfriend is angry, do not ask her why, because she does not know, ask will also lead to the escalation of the battle, you need to do is to coax, all kinds of ways to coax. The reason for this is that it’s very simple for a girl to get angry, as long as you are willing to coax her and let her feel that you love her, then the anger will go away.