In our real life, girls always wonder when they are with their boyfriends if he is really in a relationship with them because girls often do not feel safe enough and so they very much want guys to have more thoughts on themselves and care more about caring for them. The actual fact is that the boys have bigger hearts. The fact is that boys have bigger hearts, so even if they are with you, they may be thinking about other issues, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you, so you shouldn’t be too unreasonable and do anything you know how to stop.
What do guys think about when they’re with you?
1, the game they played yesterday. A lot of girls don’t understand why guys love playing games so obsessively, even thinking about the game they played yesterday when they’re hanging out with themselves. But to put it another way, girls also like to buy and shop Taobao and tiktok, and guys don’t really understand it very well.
2. Where to play today. Most guys are more planned and organized, so when they are hanging out with you, they are thinking about where they should take you today and how they should go about it, although they are not all focused on you, but think about what he is thinking about what you are doing now and in the future soon.
3. Now you. But whether he’s thinking about the game he played yesterday or where he’s going to play today, most of his mind is always on you, and it’s you who’s right next to him right now, so you should never be jealous of anything else, and it’s not good to get upset over these things.
Decoding the boyfriend
1. Saying something doesn’t mean he’s not serious. Many girls are inexplicably angry because their boyfriends always wander off while listening to them, but it doesn’t mean he’s not listening to you seriously, but he thinks of something else that’s more funny while you’re talking, and then thinks about writing it down and telling you about it right away.
2. Not knowing how to be romantic doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. Most guys don’t know what romance is and what kind of romance to give to their girlfriends? The reason is that most guys don’t know what romance is and what kind of romance to give to their girlfriends, because guys’ emotional quotient is not as high as girls’, but a guy who doesn’t know how to be romantic doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, because plain is true, and a great love is not long after all.
3. Clumsy love is a sign of innocence. A lot of girls dislike their boyfriends for being very clumsy and not understanding a lot of things, but actually his clumsy love for you is also very innocent and cute, so in this case it is possible to slowly tune in and make him become highly affectionate yea.
Everyone says that boyfriends don’t have low emotional quotient, only high emotional quotient to be nurtured, so girls must be patient enough when dealing with their boyfriends, and should also know what he means beyond words, when he is not in tune with your frequency, but also to know how to think about things from his point of view and not be impulsive.