As times change, today’s society is becoming more and more open, and it’s not the old days of talking about sex anymore, so it’s not uncommon now to live together before marriage, and many couples may just be together for a few days before they embark on the road to cohabitation.
In fact, living together before marriage may also have something to do with the lack of sex education for children. Because the parents’ thinking is still traditional, generally will not talk to their children about this issue, and the Chinese way of education only pay attention to learning will not give children a reasonable sex education, so children in school, it is unlikely to learn about sex, most of the understanding of sex from some network, books and magazines to learn, and this understanding of sex is full of excitement, temptation and lust, so now the children do not really understand The first thing you need to know about sex is how to handle it.
The emotional trajectory of modern life is roughly like this: in elementary school, the concept of men and women is not heavy, and men and women are children playing together; in middle school, there is a naive concept of men and women, and there is a naive love, but this time is under the pressure of further education But this time is under the pressure of further education, and there is also pressure from parents and school, even if there is such a thought is also killed in the cradle of all kinds of pressure; University when the huge competitive pressure so we have to work hard to improve themselves in college, but after graduation by the parents to rush to fall in love, there is no excess in the middle, so now people in the first 20 years almost have not been in love, it is easy to fall in love naturally want to boom a little, dry wood and fire The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Many women wonder whether they should have sex before marriage or not.
There is no right answer to this, it depends on your own situation. If you really love him, you can also feel that he really loves you, and want to live with you for life, then you can feel free to have sex with him, this kind of thing you have to trust your own judgment, after all, feelings such things like drinking boiling water warm and cold. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But feelings such things are the most difficult to grasp, after all, women in love is the most stupid, sometimes even if you feel that the other party is a scum, but still can not help and he together, and slowly and he had premarital sex, so girls in love also want to Keep your sanity, and premarital sex has a certain risk of unmarried pregnancy, when the time to suffer the most harm is also the girl. If you can’t control your desire, then you must do the appropriate protective measures.