Why do some women ask to have sex with the lights off? Is it better to turn off the lights or turn on the lights?

Do you prefer to keep the lights on or off during sex? I’m sure there are many people who are very interested in this question. Will having sex with the lights off or on have any effect on the quality of sex life? Find out today.

In sex, some women are shy, not very confident about their bodies, and embarrassed even in front of their close ones, so they choose to turn off the lights even during sex. So do all women like to keep the lights off? A survey showed that 66% of the 600 people surveyed preferred to have sex with the lights on, and men accounted for 90% of those who agreed; while 30% preferred to have the lights off, two-thirds of whom were women. The remaining few people, in addition to feeling little difference between lights off and lights on, some even prefer to have sex during the day.

It is easy to see that a huge percentage of those who choose to turn off the lights are men. This is because men mostly use visuals to receive sexual stimulation and stimulate sexual desire, and just the visual stimulation alone can also make men aroused. If you have sex in a dark environment, this will undoubtedly deprive men of the source of excitement on a visual level, which will be a big loss for the quality of sex.

In fact, the dark environment is not suitable for sex, in addition to reducing the quality of sex, but also affects sleep, leading to insomnia. The main reason is that darkness is a signal to sleep, the human body will stimulate the brain to secrete pineal hormone in the dark, which can help to quickly enter the sleep state, this hormone will help to fall asleep at the same time, but also to a certain extent to inhibit the libido, so the dark environment is not conducive to sex, if long-term sex with the lights off, may lead to insomnia, poor sleep, etc.

Again, when couples live is the process of physical and mental communication between the two sides, looking at each other’s faces at this time to say sweet things appropriately, can enhance the feelings between the two sides, and when the lights are off, it is obvious that this effect is lost. If your partner wants to turn off the lights, a sincere compliment and praise from you at this time will undoubtedly give her encouragement and confidence. Of course, try using scented candles instead of lights when the lights are off, or choose a bright moonlit night as another “light” while playing some nice, soothing music to enhance your sex life.

In addition, some women only want to have sex at night and have no sex drive during the day, what is going on? The first affiliated hospital of Guangzhou University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Professor Zhou Shaohu (expert appointment), said that this situation is medically known as situational orgasm deficiency. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.