Marriage age: 10 years
Love declaration: as long as the thought of having something to fall back on around you, you have unlimited courage . nbsp;
Main character:
“After the rest of my life/The wind and snow is you/The blandness is you
What Liu Gai wants to say to Wang Yaling is hidden in this song. 13 years of love, 10 years of marriage, a happy family with two cute little babies, but the envy of others. However, no one expected them to get together at first, including themselves.
In the eyes of outsiders, Liu Gai has a lively personality and loves to joke around, while Wang Yaling has a tendency to be calm and quiet. Although the personalities can complement each other, but the pre-matching really let two people shout “annoying”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In order to avoid quarrels, the two of them also made an agreement that Liu Gai would be in charge of the big things and Wang Yaling would be in charge of the small things, and they would try to make everything as small as possible. “Listen to your wife, you can’t go wrong.” Liu Gai said with a smile.
“My courage is doubled
Time has passed for more than a decade, and people around me could have changed several times, but Liu Gai’s side has always been standing by Wang Yaling. They decided that each other is the one who can accompany each other for life and is worth relying on, and this reliance has been from before until now.
When he first graduated, Liu Gai only received a meager salary and was caught up in a period of soaring prices, Wang Yaling, who had already been working for a year, accompanied Liu Gai without saying a word, cheering him on and walking him through the toughest times. Wang Yaling firmly believes in her choice, “I value his motivation and sense of responsibility compared to his ability.”
After getting married, both of them are doctors by profession, and the hard work and busyness equals double. As Liu Gai said, “The work of doctors is like ‘war’, almost every day is in a state of crazy output, after seeing outpatient clinics but also on duty, after surgery but also to check the ward. Sometimes it is easy to meet vacation, the hospital a phone call and have to go back to work.” So the two usually don’t see much of each other, not even a few photos together, and only a handful of trips together.
Doctors not only work long hours and have heavy tasks, they also face a lot of psychological pressure from different patients and surgeries every day. “Worried that the patients will not be treated well and afraid that there will be complications from the surgery.” The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem,” said Liu Gai, who sometimes brings home the “low pressure” of work, when Wang Yaling is on hand to remind him, “You rest first, I’ll take care of the children,” to avoid negative emotions affecting the children.
They encourage each other in the face of the pressure of work, and because they are peers, they understand each other better and can share their work experience and give each other advice.
“I often say that my courage is doubled. Because I am not alone, I will always have someone with me side by side.” This feeling of dependence is so good, said Wang Yaling.
“No regrets whether I choose you or as a doctor.”
The vocation of a doctor is to put the patient first, and when he or she is busy, there is often no time to eat or sleep. For children, it is even more difficult to spare extra time to take care of them. In order to take care of the patients, the children are left to the elders. They also feel so guilty about missing out on their children’s precious growing up time that they once wanted to give up on their career as doctors.
During those difficult years when family and career were difficult to take care of, Liu Gai reassured Wang Yaling over and over again, “When the children grow up, the days will slowly get better,” he said. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The good thing is that the storm will eventually pass, in the two support each other, mutual encouragement, finally is to keep the clouds open to see the moon, the day by day better.
Love is easy to get along with, and love is only strong when it can stand the test. After 13 years of love and 10 years of marriage, although most of the time is now given to work, after work to spend time with the children, the two do not communicate much in the actual sense, but together hand in hand through the years, has allowed them to have the best tacit understanding. Whether they have chosen to work with each other or as doctors, they have no regrets.