Confession:
He and I are junior high school classmates, we graduated basically no contact, but in a few years ago a class reunion we met, because it has been a long time no see are feeling very good later each other left contact information, so have been using tiktok contact (then he was out of school), and then holiday back to each other
They were all in contact with each other.
Then at a party, he got drunk and I sent him home and he kissed me, as if I had already started to have feelings for him at that moment, because we were not in the same city and knew it was impossible so I never told him.
Suddenly there came a time when he asked me if I was a virgin and wanted me to give him my first time, and it seemed like our relationship went sour after that, and he mentioned it to me many times, but I refused.
We both made boyfriend and girlfriend friends, and the same afternoon after his wedding, we met and he proposed again, and I was really tempted and almost said yes, but reason told me no.
I thought he wouldn’t bring it up again after I got married, but it turns out I was wrong, he still wanted me to have sex with him, I was moved, really moved, he was my type, and my husband was a man who could give me warmth and happiness, I knew I couldn’t be sorry for loving me, but I was sorry for him, and we took a moral step after so many years of being entangled with each other.
I don’t know how I feel, but it’s been very depressing. He and I both seem to have an understanding that we won’t destroy each other’s families, but I never understood what kind of attitude he had towards me. We both still contact each other after the relationship, but he’s no longer online every day like he used to be, and the chances of chatting have become less, but he occasionally calls and comes to my space to read my journal.
He asked me why a man can’t have 2 wives, and I asked him what our relationship was, and he said lovers. This time we met on a long vacation and he asked me to go to their house, I knew what would happen so I didn’t go, I didn’t want to be wrong again, but then we met again his attitude was cold, not the way I wanted it to be, and he always found fault with me, I was speechless, he didn’t give me a chance to say anything to him, I wrote my journal that day and this guy actually came in to read it again. What should I do?
To be honest I don’t want to lose him as a friend, after all these years of friendship is rare, but it seems I have to lose him, but every time I make up my mind not to contact him, he contacts me again as if nothing has happened, please help me analyze it! Did he ever like me? It seems that this is not the right question to ask, after all I am already married, like you said I will always keep this secret, can’t hurt the husband who loves me!
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Reply:
You say that you don’t want to lose him as a friend, and don’t want to let go of a friendship that was rare for so many years.
But let me tell you, once a man and a woman have a physical relationship, they should not talk about any spiritual friendship. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. If you want to continue the friendship with the sky, but is to turn themselves from his temporary mistress into long-term mistress only. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
You and him, sooner or later, it’s over, and dragging out the friendship doesn’t drag out the time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So, if you’re looking for a way to get the most out of your life, you’ll be able to do it.
The most difficult thing for a woman to do is to be a moral virgin and a psychological slut, which is a double torture, but of course, it is undeniable that too many women are suffering from this kind of torture.
Then there is this man. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to provide the best possible service to their customers. It’s just that this man’s true nature is only a possessive, deviant possessive for you.
When we meet again after years of separation, you and he are not considered lovers and lovers, he can blatantly ask you to give him your first night, and after that it is a continuous request, and no commitment, he does not even bother to give you a big pie vision, not even to lie to you, but only wants to claim the most valuable thing you have as a girl. What is possessiveness?
Of course, I can imagine that a man who can make your head spin to such an extent must be in a good position. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Nowadays, you don’t need to be told repeatedly what to do, in fact, you always knew what you should do, just that you couldn’t convince yourself to make up your mind, you really couldn’t bear to write off your infatuation for so many years. Yes, although you did not say you love him, but you really love him, his love may be better than the husband, so he will do those silly things for him knowing that it is not possible. Love, so you can’t bear to be a stranger with him.
But what about not being a stranger? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I once said that the love outside of marriage is junk food, although it tastes good, but eating too much is harmful to health.
For the sake of health, restrain those cravings that are not for you ……