When a woman faces her sweetheart, her heart will be like a deer in the headlights the moment her eyes meet, and her cheeks will be covered with red. Inadvertently, a lowered head, followed by a smile with affection. Not many men can resist such a temptation. The most important thing for Chinese men is that the woman is “shy to go, leaning back to the door, but the green plum smell” the warmth like water, want to say but not.
If you want to use flirting to bring a tired relationship back to life, but have no way to do it, you should also use some body language. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. When you are alone, you may want to have more small movements to increase the contact between the two. In communication, a wife can tap the back of her husband’s hand at the right time to show her agreement with him; stroke her husband’s hair and whisper in his ear; let your two knees touch from time to time. Or approach him from the side, with your chest gently touching his upper arm and your fingers sliding across the back of his neck. All of these actions can help women, hold on to their husbands’ hearts.
Without words, see how many advanced flirting techniques you can use:
1.Long-term flirting
If you’re a bit timid and can’t maintain your confidence in social situations, then “long term” flirting is more appropriate for you, which means that you’ll be able to make the most of a “flirtatious stranger”. The first thing you need to do is to give a long-distance, fleeting sigh to some “flirtatious stranger”. Sometimes you will encounter this “long line” of flirting yourself. At its most basic level, someone exclaims to you, “Gee, what a beauty. This person is at a distance from you, so that you don’t feel offended, just amused, and truckers are happy to do this.
“Long-line” flirting is very common because it doesn’t require a lot of courage and the risk factor is minimal. Don’t be rude when flirting; your goal is to make someone smile, not jump, and don’t think it’s a man-only practice; today’s women are not as comfortable with this kind of lightning action as they once were.
When he’s jogging through the park one day and a lady whizzes by on a motorcycle or convertible and yells at him, “Hey, lad!” Does he get annoyed when the car whizzes by with the sound of loud laughter? No, he had a good feeling in his heart that whole day.
A recent study showed that men find women who flirt more attractive than those who don’t, so be bold, just be sure you don’t make a bad impression. Also, it’s important to choose the right time for a “long” flirtation (for example, 2:00 a.m. is not a good time to be walking around the city in a bad place).
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2. Advanced flirting
If you’re not satisfied with “long” flirting and want to have a more permanent
The role of praise: The compliment should be directed to the other person, not just to an object. If you say, “I like your tie.” It will confuse the man, not knowing whether you like the tie or him as a person, so you should say something like, “You look quite dashing in that tie, and it makes your eyes look extra clear.”
3. Act like you’re listening
Nod your head from time to time, and when the other person is done, you think for a second and then rush to answer. The more you think about what to say in a one-on-one situation, the more flustered and confused you will be, and the more you open your mouth. You don’t always have to search your brain for the perfect topic to drive the conversation.
4. Give the person a hand
If she mentions that her car is parked 8 blocks away and she left late that night, you can offer to walk with her to get it. If he’s carrying several large bags, you can offer to carry a grocery bag for him. If she mentions that she’s getting ready to paint her apartment, you can suggest a store where she can get cheap paint (or offer to bring a brush for you to contribute as well). You want to show that you’re willing to help the other person, make his or her life easier, and use that to deepen the relationship and increase understanding.
5. Ask targeted questions
Don’t be superficial, inquisitive, or ask about someone’s privacy. The first thing you should do is to ask questions like “Where did you grow up?” or “Do you like horror movies?” Questions such as “Where did you grow up?” or “Do you like horror movies?” are light-hearted and appropriate, and they show that you are willing to get to know the person. Do not ask heavy questions that are “too big for the subject,” such as “What are your goals in life?” You can mention that you saw him at that boring meeting, you can rehash a topic she talked about last week, you can tell him you like his new haircut, you can tell her how much you enjoyed hearing her laugh for the first time.
6. Make four-eye contact
Gaze into each other’s eyes for a second or more, but don’t stare dead-on. Then look away, giving the other person time to figure out that it’s him or her you’re gazing at (and not some other person around). Then gaze at the other person again, this time with a smile on your face. There may be several ways to brush past each other to get to the women’s locker room, so choose the one where you can meet him halfway. Walk in front of him and let him admire your silhouette. If the road is crowded, you can pretend to pass him unintentionally, don’t make a show of it, and smile as you walk by.
7. Touch each other lightly
During the conversation, absently (note: absently, which is the key) put your hand on his arm; the best moment to do so is after the other person has said something absolutely brilliant or particularly amusing. The touch means something you naturally understand; you’re moving, but be careful not to overdo it.
8. Look directly at each other
If you’re sitting side-by-side, don’t just let him see your shoulders. Face toward him when you speak, which will make the other person feel respected.
9. Bring the distance closer
You don’t have to spray your breath on his tie knot, but don’t be 3 feet away from him either. Step up and let him take his guard off of you and don’t flinch.
Of course, all of the above is just advice, and some of it works especially well in specific circumstances and with specific people, and sometimes it doesn’t. Find what works best for you, what works best for you, and develop your unique mood. Once your style is developed, don’t be conservative, don’t hide it, spread your charm around.