Remember, we’re only analyzing from physical feature structure, as if we were on a blind date through a photograph. Even if you’ve never met, talked to, or known someone, you’re already attracted to those factors.
Later in this chapter, we’ll discuss some of the non-appearance-related influences that we use when choosing a significant other. We’ll start by analyzing body language from the neck down, and then we’ll focus on all facial expressions, listed at the end of the chapter. The second, seventh, eighth, and ninth parts that turn men on will be left for then.
Trait 1: Athletic body
The woman who attracts men’s attention the most is the woman with an athletic body. A healthy, firm body represents good health and is a symbol of the ability to pass on the family name without danger during childbirth.
Most men prefer a woman with a little meat on her bones to a woman who is thin and bony because chubby means more milk to feed the baby. Few women know that one of the sex icons, Marilyn Monroe, not only had ample breasts, but she also had firm legs. It is impossible for a malnourished tramp to become a sex icon.
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Trait #2: Fuller Breasts
The breasts of women in their 18s and early 20s are a favorite among men because they are both sexy and represent being at the peak of fertility. These breasts are most often photographed naked in men’s magazines, or in strippers, or in advertisements selling erotic products.
The size of the breasts is related to the fatty tissue that gives them their rounded shape but is not related to lactation.
Women who haven’t had children yet have pink nipples, which turn dark brown when they become mothers. And animals like monkeys, even if they are females, do not have breasts. Primate breasts change in size with pregnancy or not, and they change very much.
Human women, however, have always had enlarged breasts, with only slight changes during pregnancy. Most of the time, breasts serve only one purpose – to identify gender.
Before humans learned to walk on two feet, it was the rounded buttocks that attracted male attention, and mating was done from behind. Now that humans have straightened up and are walking on their feet, their breasts have gotten bigger in order to attract the male in front of them.
Low-cut clothes, and bras that have the effect of holding up and concentrating, have created cleavage that makes this personality trait more prominent, and it comes from imitating a woman’s buttocks. Some women are horrified to learn the significance of cleavage, others will make good use of it.
The nipple is surrounded by a pink or brown areola that contains a few glands that secrete a scent that stimulates the male brain during male and female lovemaking. This explains why men like to bury their heads in women’s chests.
All studies show that men like breasts no matter what size or shape they are. Whether they are as small as a lemon or as huge as a watermelon, most men like them as long as they are breasts, and they love to see cleavage.
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Trait #3: Long Legs
Women with long, slender legs usually leave a lasting impression on men. The reason for this is simple: the longer the legs, the sexier they look, because it is where the legs meet that attracts attention.
On the contrary, if a woman’s sexual organ is under her armpit, men don’t notice her legs, but rather her toned biceps and triceps.
Because of this, no one ever hears men praise women for having nice long arms. A newborn baby’s legs and body look short in comparison, and the ratio of legs to body doesn’t change much until adulthood.
But as a girl enters puberty, her hormones begin to secrete and the rapid growth of her legs transforms her into a woman. Long, slender legs become a visible and powerful symbol to let men know that she is mature and fertile. That’s why long legs are always a sexy feature.
For women, long legs are a stepping stone to fertility.
The finalists of Miss Universe and Miss World have legs that are longer than the average woman. Barbie’s long legs are specially stretched by hand, and manufacturers can expect a huge increase in sales by simply stretching the legs of models in photos, or by making mannequins incredibly long.
Mothers with daughters in their first years of life often complain that the dresses their daughters wear are too short, but it’s because the girls’ legs are so long that they create this illusion.
Most women are born knowing the meaning behind long legs and learn how to take advantage of it during adolescence, often by wearing high heels to make their legs look longer and wearing short skirts even in cold weather.
They ignore the discomfort of wearing high heels and the risk of hurting their spine if they wear them for long periods of time, and the possibility of catching inflammatory diseases, and just want to look attractive to men.
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Men like a woman who wears high heels because it makes her look like she has teenage legs and also suggests good fertility.
A pair of long, slender legs can make a woman look sexier. Arching the chest and arching the hips while pushing the pelvis forward can make the legs look slimmer and longer. This is the reason very high heels as well as thin heels with straps sell well.
Most men also like women to have round, thick legs, not so much skinny, firm legs, because fleshy legs set women’s legs apart from men’s, and that shows a good ability to produce breast milk. Men like women to have legs that look like athletes; but if they look like they could play World Cup soccer for England, forget about it.
Studies have shown that the length of a woman’s skirt, and the height of her heels, can change depending on her menstrual cycle. When she ovulates, she unconsciously picks more revealing clothes and higher shoes. This is a great tip for parents: watch your daughter for 14 to 18 days after her period!
Characteristic #4: Hip and slim waist
For centuries, women have worn corsets and tried to get their waists as thin as possible, with the goal of having a perfect funnel-like figure.
To do so, they had to endure chest distortions, breath-holding, organ crushing, miscarriages, rib displacement, and other pains, all in the pursuit of irresistible femininity.
In the 19th century, women had to use skirt supports to emphasize their hips, suggesting that they were already fertile. The corseted belly enhances the hips and shrinks the belly, signaling to the public that they are not pregnant and therefore acceptable to pursue. In the 19th century, the ideal size of a girl’s waistline was to be just right for her age.
Women with the best fertility and health had a waist-to-hip ratio of 7:10, meaning that the size of her waist was 70% of the size of her hips.
A look at the historical record shows that this is the ratio that captures the hearts of men; if it becomes 8:10, men are less interested.
As long as the ratio is different from this, whether it is high or low, it will not attract men’s attention. And women with a ratio of 1:1 rarely attract men because too much fat collects around the uterus and ovaries, and obviously fertility is not too good.
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In nature’s clever arrangement, excess fat doesn’t accumulate around vital organs, so places like the heart, brain, and testicles are free of excess fat.
Women who have their uterus removed usually have fat piled up in the small abdominal area like men do, because they no longer have reproductive organs.
Professor Divandrasin, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of Texas, has studied the Miss America pageant, as well as Playboy nude photos.
The physical attraction of both for more than 50 years. He found that the weight of perfect sex icons, on average, dropped by about 6 kg over that time, but the 7:10 waist-to-hip ratio remained the same. He also found that the most attractive ratio for men was between 6.7:10 and 8:10.
Trait 5: Rounded hips
Men find rounded hips attractive. A woman’s buttocks store a lot of fat for breastfeeding purposes and to serve as an emergency granary in times of famine, somewhat similar to the function of a camel’s hump.
Stone Age carvings and paintings show women with large hips and extraordinarily protruding buttocks, a feature that is still present in some South African races today. In ancient times, a fat, protruding buttock was a symbol of sensuality. In Greece, there were even temples built for Aphrodite, the goddess of beautiful buttocks.
In the 19th century, the idea was that women should not expose any part of their bodies in public. Young women used skirt supports to enlarge their hips in order to attract men’s attention.
By the end of the 20th century, however, big hips were no longer popular because they indicated overindulgence and poor health. So young women began to deliberately hide their butts, even using liposuction to reduce their butt size. Wearing designer jeans will make the butt look firm and round.
Wearing high heels makes your back arch, your hips follow you upward, and you walk with a light sway from side to side, thereby attracting men’s attention. It is said that Marilyn Monroe cut the heel of her left foot by two centimeters to make her walk more graceful.
Feature 6: Flat belly
Most women have rounder bellies than men, and a flat, smooth belly means they are not pregnant and welcome men’s advances. That’s why gyms and yoga classes are filled with women doing abdominal exercises, all wanting a firm, perfect belly.
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Belly dancing has recently become popular again and turned into a sport, but few people know its origins. Belly dance originated in the harem, and was danced by girls in the harem to please their masters.
The harem girl sits on top of her master and induces an orgasm by a series of vigorous writhing. The Hawaiian hula has a similar origin, and these dances are now presented as “traditional folk dances” in an elegant manner.
Trait 7: Curved back, curved pubic area
Femininity is expressed in soft curves, while a geometrically angular body is a symbol of masculinity.
That’s why men all over the world love women with perfect curves. A woman’s upper back is narrower than a man’s, her lower back is wider than a man’s, and the curvature of her lower spine is greater than a man’s.
A curved back makes the hips sharper and the breasts firmer. If you ask a woman to pose, she will make a point of arching her back, arching her hips, and then taking up more space by having one or both hands on her hips to be more noticeable.
If you’re in doubt, find a random woman standing in front of you and ask her to strike her sexiest pose. Go ahead, try it now.
Trait #8: A long, slender neck
Men’s necks are thicker, shorter, and more structurally tough than women’s, to avoid being broken in a fight or while hunting.
Women’s thin, long, rounded vertebrae shaped necks are a symbol of gender differences. Men like to see a slender neck with beautiful jewelry, and cartoonists like to use the neck to reinforce femininity. It is also the part of the body where lovers “neck and kiss”.
Many tribes in South Africa and East Africa, like the Ndebele, Zulu, Xhosa, and Masai, have young girls who wear silver rings around their necks, which they add to adjust as they grow into women.
Silver rings elongate the neck, which in their culture is beauty. The silver ring compresses the head and deforms the collarbone, so the neck is then curved at 45°. Once the silver ring is removed, the neck can’t hold the weight of the head and it snaps in response.