(a) Career-oriented spouse selection psychology
In fact, everyone is willing to pay attention to this point, and they all hope that their objects can become a pillar of talent, and excel in their work and career, but due to various factors, at present, not many people have this kind of spouse selection psychology, which can be In the group of intellectuals, there are still a lot of people. They regard work performance and career progress as the greatest joy of life. The other party has a career and the spirit of hard work, as an important weight on the scale of choosing a spouse, the happiness of love in the cause of struggle. This kind of love is eternal because of the eternal nature of career.
(2) The psychology of choosing a spouse in pursuit of spiritual satisfaction
With the progress of social civilization and the improvement of people’s cultural quality, there are more and more people with this psychology of choosing a spouse, they focus on each other’s thoughts and feelings, moral quality, personality and hobbies, etc., and pursue communication and emotional harmony with each other. As long as they can be spiritually happy and satisfied, even if the other party’s economic conditions, physical condition and other aspects of poor, it does not matter. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
(3) Money First Mate Selection Psychology
This type of mate selection psychology is more common, especially in economically backward areas. They put the other party’s economic status in the first place, and their marriage is to get a comfortable nest that can satisfy them with food, clothing, housing, and play, or lend a hand to survive. This kind of marriage based on material and money is not secure because economic conditions can change, and it often loses the attraction that unites their hearts and minds because the other party loses its generous material conditions, and thus has to go its separate way.
(4) The psychology of choosing a spouse in search of political support
This psychology of choosing a spouse was quite common in feudal society, and they used marriage to open up their career paths or consolidate their nepotism in the officialdom, the so-called political alliance. Now although this psychology of choosing a spouse is not common, but there are still a lot of people who use it for other purposes, they do not pay attention to the emotional and psychological compatibility of the two, not to mention what the soulmate, but the hidden behind the marriage of ulterior motives, in the first place in love. This kind of love is equally unreliable.
(5) The psychology of choosing a spouse in pursuit of beauty in appearance
This psychology occupies a very important place among young people, all of whom want to be more beautiful and more handsome, which is a common feeling, but if they pursue this beauty in appearance, they often go astray. The love that arises from the beautiful appearance of the other party is short-lived. As the years go by, love will also disappear with the aging of appearance. As Goethe said, “Beauty on the outside pleases only for a moment; beauty on the inside endures.”
(6) The psychology of choosing a spouse that requires perfection
Some people choose an object by setting a series of criteria in advance, and there are many rules and regulations, and anyone who does not meet one or two of them is not considered, even if all other aspects are satisfactory. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
(vii) The game mentality of choosing a spouse
People with this mentality are a minority.
They are the only ones who have a good understanding of the world, and they are the only ones who have a good understanding of the world.
In conclusion, the psychology of choice for men and women is diverse, and each person can have a different psychology of choice for others. The above are just a few of the basic psychological choices. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.