Some people enjoy cohabitation, believing that it brings them closer to their significant other. It is said that it is easy to love each other and difficult to get along. Cohabitation allows men and women in love to get to know each other’s character better and has a good effect on the coexistence of both parties after marriage. Therefore, cohabitation can also be called a trial marriage, and for those who enjoy it, it feels like heaven.
There are two sides to everything, and while many people enjoy cohabitation, there are also many people who suffer from it, with attention to women mainly. Many women have been cheated of their feelings and money in cohabitation, and some have even gotten pregnant because of cohabitation, and multiple miscarriages have made them a flawed woman, unable to be a real woman for the rest of their lives, unable to enjoy the joy of being a mother ……
While feeling sorry for the women who have been deeply hurt by cohabitation, we believe that they have seen that men are the best. We believe they have seen the true nature of men choosing to live together. They see cohabitation as a beast, a hell. We are ashamed to say that cohabitation, which is a global phenomenon, is the most fragile of gender relationships. Therefore, living with a boyfriend, women must be careful of the 4 major pitfalls.
Sex
In general, it is mostly men who ask for cohabitation, and women will shy away from asking. When men are asked why they want to cohabit, they will crown it by saying that cohabitation allows for better understanding, saves money on trips to hotels, and allows them to be together every day …… Is that really true? Many men are living together to solve their sexual problems.
Some girls still foolishly think that sex is a beneficial weapon that can tether a man. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. Men like to pursue the same thing, mainly want to enjoy the process of the pursuit. Too easy to get things, but men will not cherish, they think, too easy to get things are not good things. When just living together, men are happy to be able to spend their souls at any time from now on, he will be close to you. But it doesn’t last long, maybe less than three months, and the sex life is usually more boring than when you live apart, and then you wonder if you were a foolish idea to accept living together.
Once the novelty period is over, men get bored and move on.
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Money
When in love, men love to show off their money, even if they don’t have it.
If you’re not in love, you’ll have to pay for your date and buy you expensive gifts to create romance.
But when the two of you move in together, as the costs start to spike, men start to get timid. The cost of living together is definitely not something he can afford as a young man just starting out in society, and one day he will open your wallet and tell you to pay for that crystal vase yourself. Even after the man is married, although smiling in the hands of his wife’s salary, but secretly will be hidden private money, their hearts are extremely reluctant wife in charge of their own everything, not to mention the yellow boy who is living with you not married! He is not obligated to be in charge of your daily expenses!
When he can’t afford to meet the family’s daily expenses, he will think of settling the score with you, such as by adopting an intra-family AA system, or by simply breaking up from the cohabitation life.
Privacy
When you don’t live together, he gets calls from the opposite sex and you express curiosity, which he may still consider naive and cute, and you don’t get strong condemnation from him for going through his little drawers when you go to his bachelor dorm. But when you live together, you monitor his phone calls and whereabouts, at any time with the phone location query him, may have to be scolded by him as a small-minded. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Everyone has their own privacy, especially men, who have many friends or confidants of the opposite sex because of their jobs, but they will hold their own scale and not let these relationships develop into ambiguous male-female relationships.
Living together is a very intimate act, but both parties still have to respect each other’s privacy. There is always a corner of the human heart that one does not want to open to anyone. Women also have their own privacy and may be hiding something about their past and present, so why be so harsh on men!
Household chores
Many couples are bothered by household chores, wiping tables, washing clothes, cooking, washing dishes, scrubbing toilets, tidying closets, taking out the trash …… A whole lot of household chores that men think are women’s share, and only wimpy men will nest The only way to get the most out of your home is to do the housework.
When you live alone, you think tidying your room is a fun way to pass the time, but when you live with him, you realize that you are a complete monster to him. Watching him play games in front of the computer while he has to work himself to death, do you feel unbalanced? And when you finished mopping the floor, he also threw his shoes around; when you cleaned up the closet, he put the clothes casually in a …… these small details of life can easily become a trigger, an uncontrollable. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own.
Combining before marriage has its advantages and disadvantages. Remind unmarried girls who are ready to live together to recognize the few pitfalls of cohabitation before you decide to live with a boy, and then consider whether it is appropriate to live with him, after all, cohabitation is a serious matter.