I’ve always wondered why the Red Wolf was able to train the Grey Wolf to be so submissive. The reason for this is love. The reason for this is that love is at work, and when you fall in love with a person, you will be “cheap”. Why with the arrival of the baby, this “cheap” but more and more shallow? Women have been very distressed: why childcare has become my business alone? Why are other people’s husbands so diligent? In fact, there is a trick to everything. When we focus our eyes on Wolffy’s pampering of Wolffy, we forget that Wolffy is also a good trainer!
– Learn to praise
Men need to be praised and women need to be coaxed. The reason for this is that every man has a good face, you hold him up, he can not be happy? The first thing you need to do is to be happy, and everything will be solved. The arrival of the baby, the new parents are at a loss, especially men are not sure how to start, and this time you need to encourage him to get close to the child, such as let him hug the baby, to change the baby diaper, and then to praise him. Not only does it make him happy, but it also helps you take care of the baby. Over time it becomes a habit, and he will feel bad for not hugging the baby!
-Learn to be lazy
Many women spoil their men with their big responsibilities, but in fact, habits are made. The first thing a smart woman needs to learn is to be lazy. I remember when my daughter was first born, I was encouraging my husband to take care of my daughter, such as changing diapers at night, coaxing the child to cry, and so on. And then is always taught to say “daddy”, every time my daughter made the sound of “daddy”, I was hazy to kick my husband: “calling you! Did you pee?” The first time I saw this, I was able to get up and change my daughter’s diaper, which has become a habit over time.
-learning to be pampered
Many women become mothers and forget to dress up and be pampered, and spend all day around their children, and in the blink of an eye a yellow-faced woman is born, and they say they sacrifice themselves for their children. In fact, there is no sacrifice in love, sacrifice often carries a greater claim, such as nagging is a desire to claim the behavior. Imagine, a woman who often loves to nag which man will like it? Therefore, after the birth of a baby can not ignore themselves, a clean and gentle mother image is the essence of pampering. I remember that as long as my husband was at home, he often asked for help: “husband, hold the child, I go to buy you something delicious”, “husband, help me, I’m tired”, “husband, the baby peed all over me, come over ah “…… It turns out that pampering for help sometimes works!
-Learn to lose your temper
The temper here is in the right amount and at the right time, not so you can lose your temper all day. In fact, sometimes it is more useful to lose your temper. The red wolf just has a bigger temper, but as usual, he has taught the grey wolf a good husband. Appropriate temper will let the man converge some, helpless tolerance is the biggest indulgence, many times the biggest consequence of indulgence is to let him ignore you more and more, as the saying goes: difficult children have sugar to eat. You do not go to pester him, there will be sugar to eat? However, it’s best not to use this trick too often. After using it for a long time, the other party will also be numbed, but instead distanced.
In short, the premise of tuning a good man is that he loves you, if not, any method will not help!