What kind of person should I love? One day in the distant future, when my child looks up and asks me this question, I will answer him/her with a smile: love someone who can give you positive energy.
Everyone’s life is the same, grounded in the middle of a long river of time that looks like fragments from afar, searching for happiness, looking directly for all the things that can make you happy: material things, honors, achievements, love, youth, sunshine or memories.
Since you want to be happy, go find someone who can make you happy. The first thing you need to do is to find someone who has no passion or curiosity, who will just stay at home with you and sigh and complain about how boring life is, who will just turn on the TV and flip the channels over and over again, as if they can’t think of any other entertainment than watching TV. The only way to get the most out of life is to turn on the TV and turn the channels over and over again, as if you can’t think of anything else to do but watch TV.
People with positive energy are curious about a lot of things and want to try whatever new things they come across. They will take you to try a new restaurant, take you to see a movie with good reviews, take you to experience a newly launched entertainment show, take you to travel to the next unfamiliar city. You’ll find the world is a big place and worth spending countless lifetimes trying over and over again.
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Don’t look for a life with an insecure person who is constantly lining up possible misfortunes and anxious about future disasters. They are constantly wondering what to do and are constantly worried about impending woe. They name themselves as firefighters, pouncing on the calamities that are either there or not, imaginary or real, constantly calculating, stressing and worrying.
People who have positive energy are optimistic about life and trust themselves. They know that life is inherently sad and happy, so they have learned to face it openly. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. They believe that man will win, and when they really can’t win, they accept it openly. They can correctly understand themselves, have self-awareness, will not self-deprecation nor self-inflation, they should be independent when independent, when the time to seek help. Behind the optimism and self-confidence, there is a deep openness and tolerance for life. Don’t look for an ignorant person who has not established a complete view of life or lacks a baseline for judging the value of things. They often make unthinkable decisions, can’t think independently or are too stubborn in their opinions. They are indecisive or rude, they are sophomoric or stereotypical. It’s not because of anything else, it’s because of ignorance. People with positive energy have great wisdom, they can distinguish between the black and white of the world, they will not run away from the path of life and will not go with the flow. They do not distort the nature of things and do not exaggerate the negative side of things. They know how the world works, and understand that everyone has a yin and a yang. They give you the most pertinent advice when you need it, are principled yet seek new ideas, are opinionated yet listen to advice.
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Don’t find someone who gives up easily for life. They get by permanently settling for the status quo. They have no faith and no dreams. Their first and ultimate reaction to setbacks is to run away, and they can give up a whole world to ward off failure or because they are afraid of trouble.
People with positive energy are strong in their beliefs, have a purpose in life, know what they need and keep working towards it. They welcome change and make progress. When the going gets tough, they don’t mind the hassle or the comfort, they know there is a more beautiful view behind the hill. Yes, love a person with positive energy. They will make you feel that life is interesting and will make you feel that the world is full of colors. They will surprise you and bring you insight at the same time. They make you walk the path straight and quit all the distorted values. If you yourself are not a person with enough positive energy, then make sure you love a person with positive energy. In this math problem, negative-negative does not make positive, another person with the same negative energy will drag your life down, and the different spaces of deformity and sickness will make your life a mess. Let such a person with positive energy guide your soul and behavior, and subconsciously, you will become more cheerful and happy. This must, more than any wealth, nourish your soul for a long time.