I want to tell three true stories that happened around me.
I have a couple of lover friends who have always liked each other, something that everyone on earth knows, but for many reasons and many concerns, they stayed friends for a good long time. Fortunately, they eventually worked up the courage to be together.
This time facing graduation, they prepared for the exam together and fought for the future together. But then the boy got in and the girl did not. It was a bit late to find a job at this time, and there were few opportunities to stay in Beijing. The girl found a good job, but unfortunately far from Beijing.
As a friend, I can only stand by and wish them well, but I think it’s all very difficult. We have all seen too many couples who broke up during the graduation season, we have all seen too many words full of scars, we have all seen too many boys and girls who got drunk and threw up all over the place before graduation.
We can’t think about it without being realistic and thinking about reality.
But the boy’s decision took everyone by surprise. He gave up on grad school and chose to work in the same city as the girl.
If reality calls for the separation of lovers, can’t we go and change the reality?
If the price of love feels too great, is there a greater price than a lifetime of happiness?
The second story is about a very beautiful and excellent schoolmate, who everyone in our school should have heard of.
For the first three years of college, she was always alone, perhaps too good, and liked many people, but dared to chase few.
In my senior year, I finally saw her holding hands with a senior, a really good pair. They are both preparing to go abroad, and this story should be a real-life fairy tale of a prince and princess.
The story should be a real-life prince-princess fairy tale. But God doesn’t want lovers to be too happy, and the offer they finally got was not in the same country.
They say that long distance relationship is not reliable, not to mention that they are still in a different country, they are not together for a long time, the girl is pretty and the boy is handsome, there are enough temptations around. We can’t even think of a reason for them not to break up.
We were very conscious not to ask about their relationship, only to know that after they left the country, their lives were each exciting.
But until 3 months ago, 6 months after they graduated, he was still in her special friends spot on school. Yesterday, they uploaded a photo together with a particularly happy smile.
Who says the more beautiful something is, the more fragile it is?
Who said that distance can murder love?
The third story, maybe you don’t believe it.
The third story, maybe you don’t believe it, because at first I was also surprised to believe it.
The main character is a particularly honest boy who studied hard, competed well, and had a beautiful report card, so it was only logical that he was allowed to study at Tsinghua.
After the study, I saw that he had no time to spare, so I thought I would introduce him to someone.
They are the most popular and most popular among the world.
When he said he had a girlfriend, he was out of town.
We asked how we met, he said she was a classmate of a classmate and had been chatting online.
We were all about to spurt. Isn’t this online dating? The girl was still far away and hadn’t met her yet!
These are the things that you need to do in order to get the most out of your life.
A group of detractors put their talent for detractors to good use, but he still looked like he was relaxed and said he was going to pick her up and bring her to Beijing.
At first we couldn’t understand and didn’t want to give our blessing.
We didn’t want to give our blessing until we saw them happily holding hands on campus, and suddenly we figured out that his hard work, his grasping for part-time internship, turned out that he had been preparing for picking her up. And that girl also soon found a job in Beijing, is considered to stand firm. Looking at them with an awe-inspiring, no one could separate them, everyone really accepted it wholeheartedly.
It turns out that in reality, love can really look like this.
In fact, what is impossible when things are in the hands of people?
The first story tells me that love can be chosen.
The second story tells me that love can be persevered.
The third story tells me that there is no impossibility in love.
I just want to tell the story to give you a little courage, to tell those lovers who are still in love, how lucky you are that you can still choose, still persist, and still expect an impossible story to become possible.
If one day we go far away from each other, don’t resent the reality, it’s just not enough love. If love, what’s not to love?
I always believe in love, don’t you?