1. Beauty produces an excessive sense of superiority
Since ancient times, red women have a thin life, and from the perspective of talent, beautiful women do become less talented (with the exception of the literary world), this is because beautiful women tend to produce a blind sense of The reason is that beautiful women tend to have a blind sense of superiority. From the psychological point of view, men and women have different needs for a sense of achievement, the psychological key to promote male achievement is “competition”, women’s motivation is “social acceptance”, and some beautiful women often do not think about progress, that they were born with a socially acceptable capital, no need to bother. The woman’s motivation is “social acceptance,” and some beautiful women tend to be unmotivated, believing that they have been born with the capital to be socially accepted and don’t need to bother with “competition.
2. Success will replace love
There is a phenomenon in society that the higher the education, the harder it is to find a date, and behind the successful woman often does not stand a strong man. Many men want to be “bitchy” and don’t like “strong women”, so many women are convinced that career success will not only be rejected by society, but will also take away the love between the couple.
3. Lack of desire to compete
A sense of competition is no less important than talent in the success of one’s career. Unfortunately, women’s psychology always seems to make them feel inferior in every way, and at the same time, they do not like to rely on competition to satisfy their own desires.
4. Same-sex jealousy
Women are not competitive, but they are often “competitive” when it comes to love or when it comes to the same sex. Unfortunately, this competition causes them to lose the advantages they already have. Some women’s own shortcomings are pathological jealousy, they are not good at coordinating their own favorable factors, blindly competing with those who should not be competing with them, and eventually lose the big picture.