Men love beauty, it’s nature and it’s an addiction. Women need to learn to be smart and use their generosity and their beauty mentality to defuse men’s addiction to beauty.
A very distressed woman
I’m 34 years old and my kids are in middle school, but my husband keeps running out of town lately, always saying the company is busy. Sometimes I call his office and no one answers. When I ask him why he doesn’t answer the phone, he says he’s out socializing. I suspect that he is out playing with women, my heart is very angry, but think of their own son, can only put up with it. I have been with him for so many years, the marriage feelings are very harmonious, rarely quarrel. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Sometimes there is some perfume on his clothes, and he excuses it by saying that it is from the many people coming and going from KTV, and he accidentally got it. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
There are times when I’m angry, but I can’t help it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. What’s more, I really hope that our marriage can be well maintained. After all, it’s really not easy for two people to be together.
Sometimes when I think about it, it’s not easy for him to be out there, and he’s worried about everything for the sake of the family, so I can’t bear to argue with him every time he gets angry. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. Everything is discussed together, together with the burden. After marriage, career is more important, and gradually less communication. More just tolerate and tolerate each other. I can understand that men are attracted to beauty, but I just can’t accept that my own man is attracted to beauty. I’m terrified because I don’t know what’s going to happen next, especially since I don’t want my children to be hurt and involved.
What should I do?
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Women need to be smart in the face of men who love beauty
There are as many women in society as there are temptations for men. Men love beauty, just like smoking drugs, once addicted, it is difficult to quit, and even forget their marital nature and responsibility to do something against morality. A smart woman will keep a man away from the poison of beauty, a dumb woman will only keep a man away from herself.
One, never go around crying about your man’s lust for beauty. The first coordination point of marriage is about family shame. The man wants to save face, the woman wants dignity. When a man’s heart accidentally runs out, women should be friendly reminders, can be tossed at home, but there is no need to let the neighbors know, making things like spilled water, how can not be retrieved.
Two, don’t put all the problems on the man’s back. After a man cheats, the first thing a woman should think about is not how to drag her man back, but why the man cheated. The problem is to find the problem from yourself, find the contradiction in time, solve the contradiction, target the medicine, make yourself perfect, and by the time the man doesn’t need you to drag him, he can find his own way home.
Three, a woman’s kindness and gentleness can bind a man tighter. For men, when their careers are skyrocketing and their families are as they wish, the most important thing to him is not a woman, but his future and his own children. But women should never use these two points to chant in front of men, much less threaten them. It is best to use your gentleness, to touch him, to remind him with your generosity, so that he will find his conscience and turn back.
Fourth, be an understanding woman and take action when it’s time to take action. When a man realizes his mistake and is ruthless about getting clean, maybe he is not too strong-willed and still under the influence of beauty, this is the time for a woman to stand up and help him get rid of the interference with grace. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Five, to help a man quit beauty, be patient and attentive enough. A man may quickly become addicted again after quitting once, and at this time, a woman must not make a fuss. If drug addiction is a disease, most likely, men will be erratic during the disease, women should understand, and with their patience and attentiveness, silently help him through the difficult time.