Introduction: There is a type of boudoir love between couples called “role-playing”, where each spouse or one of them asks the other to play the type of character they fantasize about. It has to be said that men have an irresistible fascination with women from certain walks of life.
Such professional women are the most fascinating to men
For example, most men like doctors, nurses, flight attendants, and other professional women for the simple reason that these are the so-called “service industries” that require modesty and selflessness from their employees. The reason for this is that most men prefer women in the so-called “service industry”, which requires a humble and selfless approach, so this hides a “manipulative” mentality in men, who want to be able to demonstrate a dominant position in the family, and who want their “parental” status to be recognized.
As a bride, if your husband doesn’t like your career, and if he’s often prejudiced against it, here are three tips:
Tips1Compliment him.
This is a very obvious phenomenon, but most couples whose marriages are always in trouble love with each other, love to pick on each other and complain about each other’s careers, personalities, families, habits …… Every little insignificant issue can be a trigger for a massive war. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Tips2To let him know what you do.
Bias all come from misunderstanding. If he thinks your work is too busy to interfere with family life, if he thinks your work is too tiring to make you lose your femininity, then, as a bride, you have to take up the responsibility of being a volunteer advocate and always talk to him about the value of your work, to show him that you are passionate about your profession and love it, and to let him know that you are full of joy when you are doing this job. At the same time, try not to bring home any unsatisfactory emotions at work, and even if you do, don’t pour it all on him, which will only make him doubly hostile to your work. If you want your groom to fall in love with your profession, you also know how to create a positive image in front of him. A career that makes your bride happy, I believe, all grooms will love it too.
Tips3 A little role play is appropriate.
Maybe he doesn’t like your profession, but that’s okay, you can play as a nurse or a teacher, as long as it doesn’t pan out, and a little role reversal every now and then is certainly a wonderful thickener for couples’ love. But it is important to note that this type of interest should not be generalized, every time he made a commendable contribution, you can take this as a reward, at the same time, to pay attention to the work of prior secrecy, to let him have a sense of surprise, extra sense, but do not know when the next good luck, so that he can be more times his sense of anticipation, but also to make your “role-playing” The effect is doubled. If it simply becomes a “once a week” routine, I believe that soon your groom will lose interest in you too. The maintenance of love is also the maintenance of freshness. The longer you can keep him interested in you, the more he will surrender to everything you have to offer!