It’s not uncommon for married couples to practice AA, but is this method good or bad? Some people think it’s great and that couples should be treated fairly, but often such decisions can break up your relationship.
We haven’t been married long, and I’m five months pregnant. I was trying to be down-to-earth and live with him. I think this is a clear distrust of me. The time we went out to buy shoes for me, he took the money from my bag, as if he was deliberately splitting it with me! The two of us practicing AA was agreed upon before the marriage. I can fully support themselves, the monthly salary is 5,000 yuan, enough to spend, generally the mother’s family to no matter, I am to buy some cosmetics and clothes, the family’s daily expenses almost all by the in-laws are responsible for, I also do not have to do housework, the family hired a nanny. He is in an auto parts company as a sales manager, the annual salary is very substantial, generally in the 100-15 million. I don’t actually know his exact income, it’s just a guess.
We were introduced through a friend. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I’m pretty well off myself, and I’m a regular employee of a business unit.
I was the one who first proposed AA. I thought about it during the time I was dating, and it was the only way to have a long-lasting relationship with him and not fight about financial matters in the future. The reason is that I can always see his pettiness when it comes to meals and shopping. My mother’s health is not good and she can’t live without medicine for years. Normally, she spends about 500 yuan a month on medicine, and every two or three months she must spend a week in the hospital for convalescence, which is at least 3,000 to 5,000. Dad’s salary was almost all used up by mom’s illness, so he was obviously living in a bit of a tight spot. From the day I earned the money, I had to give my mom at least a thousand dollars a month, and in recent years, when my salary increased, I would give her more. The family is an only child, I do not support the two old people in the future into it? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
In fact, I thought of this a long time ago, so when he proposed to get married, my first condition was to use my own money and not to interfere with each other financially. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.