Boys tend to be more innocent, and it is easy to show whether they are interested in her or not, so to speak. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Being nice to me = liking me, that’s the way guys think. But for girls, gentleness may just be the usual little mask, and the real little signs of good feelings often show up elsewhere –
1. Which way is your body facing when you talk to it?
No matter how much she smiles and talks, to know if she’s attracted to you, look at her body orientation first.
Sitting, even if her upper body is leaning toward you, as long as her feet are facing the opposite direction from you or are tucked in properly, it means her heart is not yet in your hands.
If you are standing and talking, observe the distance between them. In general, within fifty centimeters, is the intimate distance. But, don’t jump to conclusions, then look at her body language, is it defensive? For example, is it holding arms? If not, she is basically not wary of you.
2. How you act when you say goodbye
When you’re about to break up, for example, and you’re at the station and you’re walking away in both directions, does she turn around and look at you after she’s taken two or three steps out? If she just walks away and never looks back, it means that you are simply friends. (The relationship between superiors and subordinates, customers, is another story)
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3. What. What you want to observe at this point is her line of sight. NLP, which studies neuro-linguistic, has a theory of sight that suggests that the direction of a person’s eyes is unconscious, but specific, when they are producing the two emotions of like and dislike. So, to know the baseline of her emotion, remember the direction of the eyes of “like” and “dislike”. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a restaurant with you. At this point, observe the direction of her eyes, is it a “like” or “dislike”? You’ll know if she really wants to go out with you.
No matter how much she says yes, if her eyes aren’t on the “like” side, sorry, it’s probably just social etiquette.
4. Frequency of texting
You’re still testing the waters, try sending moody text messages that have nothing to do with work or business. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. On the contrary, it is recommended that you die. (The other side belongs to the non-texting type, another story) If she often text with you, but also like to send photos, such as which store now, see what interesting things, etc., good feeling out.
Good feelings are expressed by body language, not by words. The first thing you need to do is to see if you’re in the mood for a walk.