[Read] Mobile phone is an indispensable communication tool in modern life, and it is a comfortable flirting tool in the hands of mature women, want to know the rules of cell phone text messaging flirting? The first thing you need to do is to take a refresher course.
First time we met and had a great conversation
You received the following text message: How are you? Nice to meet you, let’s meet again, I’ll pick you up at 6.
You’re tempted to reply: See you at six!
You have to reply: I’d love to go, but I already have a date, can I meet you next Monday?
Why?
You are really eager to meet him, and you are even imagining a great relationship, but please give yourself at least a few days of space, men are so eager to establish a relationship when they are in love, they don’t think about your feelings, and you should be the one controlling the pace at this time, he can’t go from a stranger to your boyfriend in a few days. He should know that you have your own life and fun, and that every minute of your time is precious.
You can’t respond with “I’m sorry I don’t have time” because you’re still expecting to be on the same stage as him.
This tactic isn’t against you going your own way, it’s just giving the man room to move on and enough room for himself. You still encourage him to ask you out again, but don’t forget that you really need to reserve your time for your friends and family, and it’s definitely wise to slow down at these times.
Handsome guy you met at the prom
Text from a handsome guy: Where are you? Coming out for a drink?
You’re tempted to reply: Where to? I’ll be out in a minute!
You have to reply: Excuse me, which one are you?
Why?
He had two full weeks to give you a call, but unfortunately he seemed so busy that he only took the 15.2 seconds to send you a text when he felt he needed a female companion. Did it never occur to him to formally ask you out in those two weeks
Don’t be needy with him, he has a lot to work on! This setback will remind him that he’s too self-righteous and presumptuous, and that you’re definitely not the kind of flirty girl who can be greeted with a glass of wine.
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Meeting my ex at the mall
Text from him afterwards: Still beautiful, I miss you!
I think we should find a place to sit and talk some other time.
You’re tempted to reply: You finally understand how good I am!
You should take: Ignore is the best way, at most reply: Thank you, let’s talk later.
Why?
It’s easy to send a text with your fingertips, but it’s hard to dial your phone, let alone talk face-to-face. If he really wants to see you, or is even ready to take a step toward a reunion, he shouldn’t just send a text, and if he really wants to make up, his actions won’t stop there.
There’s no denying that the moment you receive a text message, all the memories of your past will come back to you, but he won’t necessarily expect much of a reply, and if you don’t reply, the depression will affect both of you, but at this point you need to push him to act so you know if he’s really willing to give up texting and talk on the phone instead. If your indifference is rewarded with another text from him, you should reply clearly telling him you want to meet to talk instead of using this method.
Giving him hope assumes that you want to start over with him, and if your relationship history has left you deeply hurt, suggest that you might as well turn away and not go down the same old road. Say to him: You look good too, take care.
Saturday at 2am
Text from a man you once had an affair with: I’ve been looking all over for you and would love to see you, can I come over now?
You’re tempted to reply: Don’t you know my address?
You should take: you must not reply to anything, turn your phone off to mute, sleep well, and the next morning if you find him calling dozens of times, text him to question: are you crazy?
Why?
Anyone who tries to contact by text at that time is not responsible after the fact, so why doesn’t he text you during the usual daytime? Men are easily impulsive under the influence of alcohol.
Remember, be wary of late night text messages, usually the devil of desire calling, full of lustful and debauched innuendo. Don’t give any chance to a man who is afraid to contact you when he is awake!
You’re making dinner and getting ready to watch a series
He says: What are you going to do tonight? Got a date?
You’re tempted to reply: No, how about you?
You have to reply: I’m making dinner, let’s meet again next week.
Why?
If he really wants to ask you out, he should give you at least a few hours’ notice, and it shouldn’t be via text message, to let him know that you’re a social animal with a rich spare time, a full schedule, and that you never change your plans for an impromptu male date.