How many people need the opposite sex in their lifetime? What kind of important role do they play in our lives? There are several types of opposites that we need and matter most in our lives, so let’s use a drink that is similar to them.
How many people of the opposite sex do you need in your life? How many people need the opposite sex in their lives? What is their role in our lives?
Besides our father and mother, the most important things we need in our lives are the opposite sex, and we will use a drink with similar properties to illustrate this.
The first category, is the water-like opposite sex.
Colorless and tasteless, so bland as to be almost banal, most of the time we would even ignore his (or her) existence. They are always quietly and unnervingly present in our lives, silently nourishing us and loving us.
Their love, too, is quietly concealed in the trivial details of life, without any legend or spectacle. We may even tire of or even want to escape from this banality. However, when we leave, it is as if the seemingly banal and simple things like water and air are removed from our lives, leaving us standing in the vacuum of the desert or outer space, where even normal breathing and survival become impossible.
At this point, we miss the colorless, tasteless, bland, almost banal people we dream of escaping from and the peace they bring to our lives. Usually, this person is our spouse, and he or she will always be like water, feeling its indispensability only when it is lost.
In the second category, it is the opposite sex who is like wine.
Although the texture is also as clear and calm as water, it contains great heat and passion, which can make us uncontrollably fall into impulse and madness, and under their encouragement and temptation, we will always be unable to do many things that we would not dare to think about in normal times.
In a way, they are like catalysts that make certain desires hidden in our hearts break free and spill out.
They are the catalysts that make our bodies burn endlessly and without restraint, so that we can’t stop ourselves.
Everyone who has ever had a drink knows that the world becomes light and indistinct when you sip and savor the aroma and the heat that slips into your belly and slowly rises up in your body ……
But most people don’t stop at this point, they continue to refill their glasses, amplifying the pleasure to the point of madness and distortion. The pleasure is magnified to the point of madness and distortion, and they even mistakenly assume that the pleasure they get is directly proportional to the amount of alcohol they drink. Most of the facts show that this judgment is wrong, and many people will lose their minds and vomit or even do something ridiculous that they will regret later in life.
Usually, these are our lovers or lovers, the ones who excite our desire and use it to make us happy or sad.
The third category, the coffee-like opposites.
Wrapped in a deep color with some bitterness, then stirred with milk and sugar, it becomes a complex taste that is hard to describe. It’s the opposite of wine in character, always waking us up and cheering us up when we’re tired and down.
This opposite sex, our soulmate, is commonly known as a red or blue friend. Such opposites are usually deeper than friendship and shallower than love. We are like brothers or sisters to each other, we can share each other’s secrets that we don’t pass on. When we encounter problems in life, the first thing we always want to do is to send them a text message or make a phone call to tell them about it.
For most people, coffee is not a necessity in life, but it is an element that enhances the quality of life. Like those opposite-sex confidants in our lives who look at each other but keep their distance, not deliberately intimate or cold, it is not as formal and solemn as marriage, nor as wildly obsessive as love.
It is just a cup of coffee, a complement to the good life.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
In fact, we need three (or three) types of opposites in our lives, and they fill our lives. It’s just that unlike water, wine, and coffee, these things are subject to transformation and even interchangeability.
Wine, when left for a long time, can change its flavor and become water; coffee has the potential to become wine without being noticed, and its highest state is the Trinity, finding all three things we want in the same person. This is difficult, but not impossible.