What are the tips for getting along with your in-laws, psychologically, it is really hard to get over that hurdle when you are new to the job, teach you 3 tricks to get your in-laws around you.
Getting a good relationship with your in-laws first move food partner
Korean dramas often see such episodes where old ladies complain in front of their daughters-in-law twice in three days: “People want to eat something good when they are old, and somehow their mouths are so greedy.” In fact, not only Korean old ladies have cravings, but also Chinese old ladies. Don’t forget, food is the best communication prop.
So don’t just be a foodie, once in a month, put off a date with a friend and take your mother-in-law out to eat something she hasn’t eaten before, even if it’s not to her liking, but there’s a saying that “the mouth of the eater is soft” and if you don’t get a compliment, I’m sure she won’t say anything against you.
Love the same cuisine, plus your mother-in-law is a passionate cook, and that’s even better.
Get your in-laws to surf the web
Who says that only young people like to surf the Internet and who says that older people are slow to respond, nowadays, more and more older people have become Internet users. So, as long as your mother-in-law is literate, hurry up and make her computer literate. For one thing, you can make the old lady fashionable too, and for another, you can finally have a chance to educate her.
It may be hard and tiring, but you’ll soon find it feels good to be relied on and trusted by her.
The third way to improve in-law relations is to go shopping
It is a woman’s nature to love beauty, and no matter what age she is, I believe shopping, especially for clothes, is always a favorite thing to do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In the process of shopping, not only do you relax your mother-in-law, but you may also find that you like the same style of plaid dresses and the same color of curtain tablecloths. These common language can be a bridge to build their friendship.