When a woman becomes second-hand, the light uncovers? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. In addition, you must always pretend to be mature. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A second-hand woman’s story
Lin Yixin is 35 years old
And now my husband is a former colleague, doing projects together, often traveling together, both of us feel that we hate each other, I am defiantly divorced, with children “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The two of us talked about it every day for nearly two months, and finally he agreed to leave the house to her and continue to pay the mortgage until it was paid off, and the marriage was finalized.
We quickly rented a room and got a license, and we didn’t do anything to get married. This is one of the things I regret the most, and there was no point in doing it again later.
Our enthusiasm was wiped out in less than a month by different habits.
His ex-wife was a good wife and mother type, he just rushed ahead and his wife would help him with whatever was going on at home. I am not such a woman. In the past, my husband just ironed his own shirts and pants, and when he was hungry at night, he cooked his own instant noodles to eat. He once told me that he appreciated a woman like me, capable and ambitious. When in love, to do his wife are helping him to do, he naturally do not appreciate the need to do at home, I am such a capable woman in the outside is attractive to him. Now, married back to a wife who can do it outside the home can not do it, his dissatisfaction quickly flowed out.
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There were times when he came home late and I served him directly the leftovers my son and I had eaten, and he wouldn’t eat them, and said out of the side of his mouth, I never eat leftovers. Either that or I used to say, no matter how late I came home the family waited for me to eat together. I also do not show weakness, you go back to the previous well. He came home at eight or nine o’clock always do not have to let me and my son are waiting for him, children are going to bed at this time, women eat at this time is not clearly with their own body? This kind of thing is also a lot more. I think my clothes are not ironed flat, picking on the nanny for not cooking good food, thinking that the house is not clean enough. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
These little things are annoying enough, and my son is one of the annoying ones. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. One minute he says he wants to ask his dad something and asks me to dial the phone, the next he says he wants to ask his dad to buy something and asks me to text his dad. Several times, when we were thinking about that on the weekend morning, he rushed in without knocking, making both me and him very messy. He put up with this at first, until one day he found a dead earthworm crawling in his shoe, and he couldn’t take it anymore and lashed out at me, calling my son a brute. I couldn’t take it anymore and got into a fight with him. This is the worst argument we’ve had since we got married, just two months after the wedding.
I asked him why he had to pay the mortgage on his ex-wife’s house when he was divorced, and when we were going to buy a house after 20 years of paying for it. He then asked me back why I was leaving all the money to my ex-husband. If I got half of the deposit back, we could make the down payment and have a much easier time.
The argument went on and on, all complaining, and the usual pent-up resentment exploded all at once. The two of us have started to reflect on this, and in the following week, we have set some rules, such as changing the nanny, increasing her working hours, and keeping the room clean; he came back late and I should heat up the leftovers and sit next to him to eat with him; let me reason with my son, and he should try to send some gifts.
Now I’m trying to “bribe” him.
Now that we have been married for more than a year, we still have some problems and still fight, but compared to a year ago, we feel that the marriage is still better than before.
What you don’t know about second-hand women:
1. No matter how many times you get married, a big wedding is necessary. The greater the cost, the greater the value, and he won’t think you’re just a random second-hand guy he married.
2. Be sure to find out if his previous habits are similar to yours before you start living. Don’t think that having love can break through all the barriers. Love is absolutely no substitute for firewood and salt. When he brings his previous habits into his life with you, you will know how well you will get along if similar. For example, like to eat almost anything, one pleasure will be gathered into two enjoyment, if he likes meat and loathe fish, you like fish and loathe meat, he eats meat when you hard, you eat fish when he is not happy, so that both are happy then increase the expenses, small conflicts will accumulate into big trouble.
3. Never mention in front of your new wife how good your past life was, even if she asks, you have to say it’s not good, women can’t listen to other women better than themselves, don’t let her know if you can, your mouth is too broken will be the handle later.
4. It is more important for a man to be able to take care of her children than to take care of her, her children to you, she is sure to die to you.
The children are the heart of the mother.
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5. The second-hand ones need to be mended, and the second-hand relationships are also larger than the first-hand ones. The first time you get married, you are facing each other’s parents, and the second time you get married again, there are not only each other’s parents, but also both ex-wives and ex-husbands and children.
6. Married to a second-hand woman should have patience, patience with children, patience with the grind, but her ex-husband can behave cynically, which will make her feel you care about her, she will not be entangled with her ex-husband.
7. It’s not always true that distance produces beauty. It’s better for the new family to keep the ex-husband’s ex-wife far away than to be in constant contact. The ex-husband’s ex-wife is coming to pick up the kids, so why don’t you both take the initiative to send them up, one to look like you have a close relationship, and the other to avoid disturbing each other at your house.
8. Before getting married, you must sort out the economic relationship between the two sides to avoid leaving any after-effects. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The two people’s money must be put together, AA is not suitable for remarried families, and it is better to have open accounts than to keep one account each.
9. When you get married, you are a family, and the other person’s family is also your family, so don’t have the idea that you are just a temporary partner, but you should grow old together. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The second-hand marriage is just as much about working together as it is about not having a different heart.
A second-hand man’s story
Wang Ziqiang is 37 years old
I fell in love with a 28-year-old young girl because of online dating, and after six months, she got pregnant for me, and I couldn’t be sorry for her, and my wife said so, and she said divorce because it was my fault , to leave the house and property to her, the child I take away. I myself feel sorry for her, I agreed. I think my current job is good anyway, and my income is quite good, there is still no problem to buy a house in a few years.
I was divorced in 2005, when house prices had gone up, and my young girlfriend was very upset that I had left my house to my ex-wife, and she only stopped when I promised to buy her a better one. I didn’t expect the prices to get more and more outrageous, and now I’m not even able to buy a house, and I want to wait a little longer.
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After the divorce, we spent $2,500 to rent a house. My young girlfriend – now wife – thought it was fine at first, but after my daughter was born, she became increasingly disgruntled, always disliking the old house and saying all day long why I left the house and money to my ex-wife. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
It’s more trouble than it’s worth to have a young girl, and my buddy is right.
They’re not the only ones who have been in the business for a long time.
She and my son don’t have a good relationship either.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good relationship with my son.
My ex-wife then got a boyfriend and sometimes calls me to ask me what I think about men and stuff. I want to help her if I can, I’m already sorry for her and hope she finds someone better than me. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Also, I sometimes have to go see my kids, and I always meet with my ex-wife. The first time my ex-wife suddenly called to say that she temporarily worked overtime and could not go to the parent-teacher conference of her son to let me go for a while, I said to my wife, she ended up making a scene, saying that she and her daughter are not feeling well now, and insisted that I go home, I ignored her that time and went to the parent-teacher conference of my son, and as a result returned home, she locked the door and did not let me in, I ended up staying at my parents’ house and lied to her that I was staying at my ex-wife’s house. Then she kept suspecting that my ex-wife and I had something going on that night.
I also had a bad mouth and got myself into trouble for no reason. My parents explained to her that she thought my parents were covering for me. It’s not even clear to this day.
We’ve been married for over two years, and for a year or so we’ve been having trouble, and now it’s better. On the one hand, she’s 30 herself, and she’s a mom, and sometimes she tells me that she thinks it’s not easy for her ex-wife, and will buy gifts for my son and my ex-wife for me to send.
The house issue is still nagging at her, and now the rented house has gone up to 5,000, but it looks old, but I have no extra money, it’s such a small salary, the price of housing is such that I have to buy a new one, and it’s really not a momentary solution. I actually regret that I could have given my house to my ex-wife, and my savings to my ex-wife, but I should have gotten all of my stocks back, and last year I had a high of more than 400,000 to put a down payment on.
But I’ll be able to buy a house in five years, and when I do, she’ll have nothing to complain about, and I’ll have more for her and her daughter than for my ex-wife and son. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days before you get married. It would be much better to have a house.
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What you don’t know about second-hand men:
1. I thought I could prove I was attractive by finding a younger one, but in fact, this kind of vanity is planted in front of marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
2. When dealing with property in a divorce, if there is already a prepared one, be sure to ask her opinion first, and if she says yes, you do so, and you can’t be blamed for it in the future. That kind of time, she in order to correct as soon as possible, generally will also be willing to let you put more to the ex-wife, so you can compensate for the ex-wife, but also to avoid causing trouble in the future.
3. Anyway, she does not know your previous property, try to say as little as possible, on the one hand, to test whether she values people or money, on the other hand, if you put a little more to your ex-wife, there is also a lot less lip service.
4, you are second-hand, she is first-hand, you have to give her more superiority, such as praise her than the ex-wife beautiful ah, young ah, capable ah. The company’s main goal is to make sure that the company’s products and services are not too expensive.
5. You can mobilize your buddies to help your ex-wife find a boyfriend as much as possible, on the one hand, to make your ex-wife’s life faster and also to reduce your guilt, on the other hand, she found someone, your family’s this will not always for the ex-wife’s affairs and you can not get over.
6. Divorce and remarriage may mean raising two families, so don’t just get carried away by hormones when you have little earning power. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Unless your wife is very capable of making money, in general, nothing to divorce, divorce do not remarry, remarry do not have children, so that the pressure will be much less. Your sense of responsibility has to correspond positively with your wallet.
7. To remarry, it is easier to find a mature woman than a young girl. The young girls don’t know anything, and the ones who should make a fuss also make a fuss, and the ones who shouldn’t make a fuss also make a headache, and it’s troublesome to break in. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do.