According to a survey, when a husband’s salary is 1.5 times that of his wife, the salary of men and women in a marriage is the golden ratio. However, with the advent of the era of big women, more and more “strong women” are earning more than men, and the phenomenon of men eating more soft food behind strong women is increasing.
There are more and more men who want to rely on a capable woman and be happy under her wing. They are beginning to think that doing housework and serving women can also lead to a life of living, but in the long run, can women afford to be dissipated? We know the existence of some people: not high income, in the modern consumer society is not enough to live a high-class life, but have a fairly wealthy or well-off woman as a wife. They go against the established social norm and move from the role of the dependent to that of the dependent, willing to be the man who eats soft food.
Nowadays, in an increasingly diverse society, with the advent of the “fancy man era”, there are more and more men who want to be happy under the wing of a capable woman. Just like the dependence on the sale of youth “second wife”, men have also begun to have a career of soft rice called, such as the second master, cowboy. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
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Feminism has evolved from its inception at the beginning of the last century to roughly three stages, the first being economic independence, the second reversing the differences in political structures, and the third to the shaping of female identity in modern society. It is in the development of its own trajectory there is a clear turnaround, including the gender role alignment. The over-amplification of women’s power and ego has created many men who mistakenly think they can be housewives and not think ahead.
Women playing her part in the city does not manifest itself in an overemphasis on feminism. In fact this advocacy has been to the detriment of women. It is reasonable and necessary to emphasize women’s rights by using male power as a reference point, but in isolation it may allow men to avoid responsibility.
I recall seeing Wang Shuo in 2007 when he was promoting My Thousand Year Old Cold, recording a program and bluntly admitting, “We women in Beijing never give money to men, and I am from a soft-pocketed background, because I don’t have much money, I often cheat people out of girls’ money. The first one is that they take themselves as men.”
Wang Shuo, who has always been a loose talker, expressed two meanings in this paragraph. First, the money thing, those who can work more; second, women’s ability to create economic value has changed dramatically, the world has to balance, women are strong in this matter, and still do not allow men to be weak?
When it comes to this, I am reminded of a notoriously soft-hearted man in the literary world, Li An. There was a six-year period when there was no work, and his wife’s income alone sustained all the expenses of the family. So much so that after winning the award he also issued a humorous “I would love to go home and be scolded by my wife”. Six years of soft rice in his case is only the difference between the couple’s thirty years in the east and thirty years in the west, the difference between gain and loss. In high-end consumer or entertainment venues, you will also see that the woman driving a BMW, surrounded by a flow of men, most of them wandering around with nothing to do. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
This shows that soft food is not so good, but also divided into three, six, and nine classes.
The first class: Zhou Yu playing Huang Gai, mutual assistance and mutual benefit type
The majority of this combination is married couples, the man has some brains but not good luck, like Li An. It is not to take possession of the woman’s property as the purpose, want to take advantage of each other’s interpersonal relationships and social base, etc., to work together for the benefit of sharing the harvest.
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Knowing a good-looking little man, age 26, his criteria for finding a wife is: a girl with a stable income, a monthly income higher than his, because his monthly income is less than two thousand, if the other party’s income is also the same, then there is a crisis in the matter of paying for the house, raising children and pension; the level of culture is not low, so that to be reasonable and tolerant of the reality of his low income. In his concept, marriage is an investment, emotional and financial payoffs must be eager to return, and what he expects to get in marriage is more comfort and not hard work.
Second class: a career without formative work
The art of war says that anyone who arrives at the battlefield first and waits for the enemy will be calm and active, while those who arrive at the battlefield later will only be able to respond to the battle in haste and will definitely be fatigued and passive. The first one who eats soft food has an active type, while the one who comes after is destined to bear more.
Most of the people in this category have interest or temperament, but no strengths or confidence, and like to live with little wealth. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The woman’s role in the production of society is growing, that they must be less and less energy invested in the home, if the man turned to maintain the normal functioning of the family, but also considered a contribution to society.
Third grade: the beauty of the man, thin and thick type
I once read an autobiographical book, “Confession without a door”, about a man named Li Chunping, who made his fortune by eating soft food. 27 years of poverty, by
I have read an autobiographical book “Confessions” about a man named Li Chunping who made his fortune by eating soft food.
This type of soft man is the one who lives as if he were a woman, the softest and most direct, soft to the bone. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. Every time to the meal before the woman will stuff him some money, and buy the remaining part of the bill that the woman never want. Gradually the man developed a problem, he spent the rich sister’s money to invite the brothers to dinner, but more and more shrinkage, take this as a way to make money. The reason for this is that the woman said he was too substandard.
It seems that no matter how sophisticated the rules of the game of eating soft food are, the old adage that you can’t be poor is still the first thing to go.