Are Chinese people happy with their lives? The foreign media seem to be particularly interested in this. In the last 5 years, psychological teams from Erasmus University in the Netherlands, Leicester University in the UK and the University of Michigan in the US have investigated the happiness of Chinese people and come to the unanimous conclusion that Chinese people’s happiness is declining! Let’s see if there is any truth in what these foreigners are saying.
●Love to compare
Modern people devote their main energy to competition, comparing positions, houses and wealth. The only thing that remains in the heart is desire, and there is no happiness.
●Unawareness of sufficiency
Comparison brings desires, and these desires will lead people to endlessly run around and work, desperately chasing the highest peak of fame and fortune.
●Not good at finding the sunny side
Many people only see their own misfortunes and magnify the happiness of others, without thinking about the happiness and joy they have already arrived at.
●Mutual distrust
Chinese people like to go to big cities to develop, but there people’s hearts grow distant. How can lonely and isolated people feel happy?
●Over-anxiousness
Home-buying, child rearing, family retirement burden, room for advancement in the workplace, and overly complicated relationships are all “stressors” for Chinese people. The elderly, young people and even children are in a state of restlessness and anxiety, which prevents people from feeling happy from the bottom of their hearts.
●No ideals
After the sprinting race for wealth when you were young, you don’t know what you want anymore, except to earn money. This lack of conviction and aspiration makes it difficult to produce a long-lasting, happy sense of well-being.
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