“Are you marrying me, or are you marrying a house?” “Either buy a house or die ……” The two argued.
Either buy a house or die ……
Winter is almost over, but the gradually warming weather hardly seems to warm their fragile and impulsive hearts. This reporter learned from the Marine Police Headquarters that from February 8 to 12, there were at least five river jumps in five days, with six people involved. Two quarrels, being forced to buy a house and being a mistress are the more common reasons behind them.
“I observed that the parties involved in these conflicts were originally able to resolve them. But for many reasons, the urban population is becoming increasingly psychologically fragile, loves to take the bull by the horns, has a low belly and emotional intelligence, and lacks communication, leading to extremes.” Old water police Li Xiaomao said, jumping in the river crowd after 80 more and more. After they enter the delicate age of 30, they face sharp contradictions in emotional and economic aspects, families and units need to intervene in a timely manner, and may care more, and design some virtual “blows” for them to exercise resistance.
Time: 10:30 pm
Location: upstream of the Yellow Garden Bridge
Core tip: Another story of love being defeated by reality, because the beautiful girlfriend forced to buy a house, the Fujian guy wanted to jump into the river.
Girlfriend mentions marriage attitude is very tough, who knows, he really ran to the Jialing River to jump into the river
“Either buy a house or die ……”
Strange city, strange Jialing River, when Li Zheng walked to the riverside When he walked to the riverside, his girlfriend’s words echoed next to his ears. For him, the words were colder than the river wind, colder than the river water, and he dragged his feet as he slowly walked toward the river.
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Can’t find the jumper
At 10:30 p.m. on the 10th, a 110 alarm called into the Niugatao Water Police Station that a man was going to jump in the Jialing River.
The man, a native of Fujian, was unfamiliar with Chongqing and could not tell the exact location even after describing it for half a day on the phone. The company’s main business is to promote the development of the company’s products and services.
“Are there any prominent signs around you?” The young man said he was near a bridge and could see the billboard of Huaxia Bank when he looked up.
After half a day of searching, the police confirmed that the man who jumped into the river was tens of meters upstream of the bridge.
Keep talking for half an hour
“I guess you came here because you couldn’t figure out your feelings.”
“Well. She said to me, ‘Buy a house or die. Why would I marry a woman like that?”
“I understand how you feel. How about this, let’s meet and talk about it, and then you can decide to jump or not.” Listen to the tone of the other side, feel the emotions gradually smoothed out, the civilian police phone has been talking for half an hour.
At 23:00, the police found the person near the pier in Daxigou, and Wei Xue Gang’s phone only had half a battery left.
The house drove him crazy
The 29-year-old Fujian guy Li Zheng came to Chongqing for a year and a half, working in a building materials company in the city. A year ago, Li Zheng met the unit property company security Lao Yang.
The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to meet the needs of its customers.
The company’s first meeting was held in Beijing, China, on March 15, 2012.
The first time I saw the company, I was surprised and started to get serious with Yang Bei.
Yang Bei is from a rural area in the Banan district and her family’s financial situation is poor, but the beautiful Yang Bei’s requirement for a boyfriend is “one step at a time”. The company’s main business is to provide a service to its customers. You’re a man, you don’t want me to buy a house. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
“I need time,” Li Zheng said, adding that it would be possible to buy a cheap house in Banan town first and then gradually make the transition, a proposal strongly opposed by Yang Bei.
“Are you marrying me, or are you marrying a house?” “Either buy a house or die ……,” the two quarreled.
After this year’s Spring Festival, Yang Bei began to avoid Xiao Li and did not even answer her phone. The two of them had a fight.
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“If you want to jump, go jump,” parents should not say this
The extreme “prescription” to die in order to achieve a certain wish. The “prescription” is becoming increasingly popular. The most important thing is that parents are at their wits’ end when it comes to their children’s death, and parenting is at a dead end.
How can we avoid a “dead end”? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. Some people just act, or “show,” while others react on impulse, and when impulse comes, the person’s sanity is then reduced.
“What if your child asks for an iPad or iPhone and you don’t want to give in, but your child is pushing to death?” The first is that if the child is in an extremely agitated state, don’t just say “die, go to hell, go jump” and other permissive words that could cause a tragedy, but first show understanding and promise, and then try to talk to the child when he is calm and sober.
On the other hand, if your child is only casually talking about jumping off a building, you can pretend you didn’t hear it and avoid it by talking on the phone, watching TV, or going out to buy food. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.