The “honeymoon peak” in the first year of marriage
Marriage is not necessarily the grave of love, but may be the legal “trigger” to enter the peak of love. The “fuse”. From two lovers (pre-marital love) to skin-to-skin (post-marital sex), it is a qualitative leap in sexual activity.
Although many women are not able to experience orgasm in the initial stage of marriage, they are driven by their sexual instincts in an atmosphere of tenderness and love, and they are still overjoyed by sexual activities and actively and wholeheartedly devote themselves to the sexual life after the wedding.
So, for the vast majority of couples, the frequency of sex in the first year of marriage is, I’m afraid, the highest in their lifetime. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Creating a “free peak” of new life
At the beginning of a new marriage, many young couples do not want to have children for the time being due to family planning, and need to use contraception during sex, which will more or less give them the freedom to play their sexual activities. This will more or less affect the free play of their sexual activities. Once they decide to have small children, they are freed from the burden of the fear of unplanned pregnancy and from certain contraceptive measures that would interfere with the coherence of sexual activity.
That uninhibited, carefree, easy and free engagement, that excitement and thrill of creating a new life, often brings a second erotic peak to women. If you were originally taking the pill, because the pill often has the effect of inhibiting your own sex hormone production, stopping the pill will increase your own production of sex hormones and thus increase your sex drive. After pregnancy, in the third to sixth month after conception, there is a massive increase in sex hormones in the body, along with increased blood flow to the sexual organs and breasts, which can also lead to an increased sex drive.
The “wolf’s peak”
It has long been known that, physiologically speaking, a man’s libido peaks in his twenties, and in his thirties and forties, sexual desire tends to level off and sexual ability begins to go downhill. And many women in their thirties and forties, their libido often goes a bit uphill, forming a more pronounced contrast with men.
Folk often use the phrase “like a wolf like a tiger” to describe women at this stage. In fact, it is perfectly normal for a woman to have a high level of eroticism during this period, which has its own physiological and psychological basis.
The “tiger-like peak” of the second spring of romance
Women in their forties are often successful in their careers, their families have a good income, and their children have grown up, so they can be partially or completely freed from household chores such as buying, washing, burning, and taking care of children. The first thing you need to do is to start focusing again on taking care of yourself and satisfying yourself, thus entering a romantic “second spring”.
In recent years, a study at the University of Chicago proved that women in their forties are more likely to reach orgasm during sex than women in any other age group. Couples in their forties are also more in tune and matched sexually. The woman is more intent on the extreme pleasure of orgasm and is prone to “tiger-like” desires.