Reason #1: Leftover women play hard to keep, leftover men play loose
I have tried to walk into the lives of some leftover men and women, and on the surface they all seem to be the trendy and rebellious generation, and are not willing to give up their freedom and happiness because of marriage.
I think it’s a good idea to take a closer look at the men’s and women’s starting points, but there’s a big difference.
The remaining women still have a dream in their hearts, a hope for love and happiness, and they would rather have a shortage than a shortage, and they have been holding on to their hearts until the prince charming who can give them joy and happiness appears.
However, the leftover men are different, they are more because of a fear of marriage, they hate the constraints of marriage, lack of confidence in their hearts, fear that they can not afford the responsibility of marriage, they hope that life can be spent without any responsibility, in the full enjoyment of freedom of unrestrained …… in the end play The most important thing is that you have to be able to do it yourself.
Reason 2: The more leftover women are the more elegant, the more leftover men are the more vulgar
I once wrote “Five Reasons to Love Leftover Women”, in which I mentioned that “‘leftover women’ is actually the closest thing to a ‘saint’. The reason for this is that they have withstood the temptation of men, even if they are ugly and no man has ever tempted them, they have at least experienced the process of “longing but not getting”.
They are the ones who have to go through the process of enduring and transforming.
Whether a man doesn’t see her or she doesn’t see a man, she is always moving toward marriage and happiness, a process of maturity, progress, and spiritual grace.
However, it is difficult for leftover men to realize their own weaknesses, because they have a different sense of face or their own sense of marriage, and they always say, “Why should a man worry about his wife” and “A man’s ambition is to be a man.
What’s more, they will give up the idea of marriage altogether because they don’t have the money to create the conditions for it when they are young, and eventually become self-absorbed and broken …… which will become vulgar in the eyes of many people.
Reason #3: Leftover women are left over because of their talent and wealth, and leftover men are left over because of their color
While women are sensual, they are ultimately affordable animals, so most women will choose a man’s standard as having money and talent, or having both money and talent. The main reason I believe this will be the main reason why many women are left.
Especially in modern society, many high-profile women look at men with a critical eye, apparently for many specific reasons, but in fact it comes down to the man, no talent that she feels has no common language, no financial ability that she feels can’t give her the romance and happiness she wants, the problem ultimately comes back to the words talent and money.
It seems that the remaining women have a vision of development, they think that if a man can not give him talent and money, it is better not to marry a person over more free, just like many people think that kind of “big chest and brainless” and no opinion of the woman, this woman is everywhere through a
They are not the kind of women that many people think of as “big-breasted” and unassertive.
But most leftover men are different.
The majority of the men were left behind, not because they couldn’t find a woman who would be a good wife for their family, but because they had gotten the criteria for finding a wife wrong from the beginning.
They will put the woman’s looks and body in the first place, and they can ignore all the merits and virtues of the person, not knowing whether they are looking for a wife or a lover, whether they want a vase or a life. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, if it is clear, anyone can understand the reasoning, the woman’s sex is not a meal, it is purely a luxury and high consumables, this life if you have to take it as a necessity of life, it is obviously stupid …… can also naturally see the leftover men in the persistence of this The blindness of the