Is it really true, as others have said, that men also wear a mask and are not the same in person? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The woman should do in the face of men’s uncertainty? The woman is still calm in the face of these ……
1. Men, both strong and soft
The men we see are the strong side, they gallop in the workplace, at home is also the pillar. The company’s main goal is to provide a strong and reliable service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective solution to the problem.
Don’t blame them for ignoring you during the day, even with a bit of whining, because they have to shoulder the burden of the whole family during the day, and your future, they have to fight for your future, they have to be quiet and think about the future development and ideas.
Don’t blame them for being tender to you at night, even to the point of being bone-chilling, because they’ve had a hard day and are tired inside, and they need to be relied on and soothed.
In fact, it’s only in front of you that he acts so soft, and it’s only at night with you that he wants to show his true love for you. So please don’t whine, don’t make a fuss, give him a good hug and listen to him speak the world’s most beautiful language to you.
2. Men love to save face
Men are extremely face-loving creatures, and quite often many men will even swell their faces to save face. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Perhaps you will suspect that the man is not a problem, is not sick. The actual fact is, it is simply a matter of the man’s face at work.
You just know that he needs a bit of decent dignity in front of his friends, in front of his colleagues, and he naturally will not go to take irrelevant people for such a debasement, and you become his most intolerant cannon fodder. Of course, after shelling you out he will patiently reassure you and praise you.
In fact, it doesn’t matter, after all, it’s not you who is often with his friends or colleagues, it’s him, and maybe one put-down doesn’t leave much of an impression on these outsiders, but it makes him look good. You don’t need to be too concerned about these insignificant things.
Please don’t whine, don’t make a fuss, listen to his compliments and hear him give a description of the real you in his heart.
3. There is a scale in a man’s heart
The problem of in-laws is the most worrying issue for many women after marriage, and many daughters-in-law are very strong in the face of this problem, and they have to tell who is lighter and who is heavier in their husbands’ hearts, always asking “If I fall into the water with your mother, who will you save first? “
They are not only the best way to get the most out of the world, but also the best way to get the most out of it.
Seeing that the husband’s life is his mother-in-law’s, many women are even more angry, why is he just filial to his mother-in-law, but not to care about his parents-in-law?
In fact, men have a scale in their hearts, and since he can be filial to his own parents, he must be a filial person, and will certainly treat your parents well.
So don’t blindly blame him for being too generous, you have to know, after all, how hard it is to raise his parents after they have grown up, if he is still in the struggling stage, then, when he has a successful career, he will definitely give more filial respect to your parents.
You should know that a man who knows how to be filial is not bad at all, so please don’t whine, don’t make a fuss, listen to his explanation and give him some time to be filial to your parents, if he is always like this, it’s not too late for you to get angry.
Men are also a contradictory animal, so they are also fickle. The woman has to be quiet and patient in the face of a fickle man, love him, trust him, understand him, tolerate him, and you will be happy!