There is a very interesting social phenomenon in our lives that the vast majority of people eventually choose to marry someone other than their first love, why is that? In fact, that is the first love does not know how to love. The first-time lovers tend to be less considerate of each other’s feelings, and rarely put themselves in each other’s shoes, or are more egotistical.
From a girl’s point of view, first love girls seem to be gentle, but sometimes they behave in a tricky and eccentric way, so that men are at a loss, and sometimes they show too much harshness to the boys, so that the boys feel tired of the gods, and sometimes they ask the boys to show romantic feelings, so that the men dig in and must be different. That is to say, first love girls are too good at making little sex, too like emotional pampering, too like to test the boy’s will and nerves by leaving home or rejecting him, to test whether the boy is serious attitude, sincere to her, to be able to treat her as the queen of life. So, the heart of the first girl is like a needle in the sea, so that the boys can not see and touch, but can be tired of the boys.
The first love of women demanding perfection, strong romance, will be obsessed with something illusory and delicate vanity, and the first love of women never know to hide their shortcomings, she will understand to show worry that you can not present the most perfect side forever, the first love of women are generally very self and do not know that love is the need for two-way communication, do not know Reality is always made up of shortcomings. So, most of the first love women are more capricious. Of course, this can not be completely blamed on them, the main problem is that the men themselves “spoiled” first girlfriend! In order to make them happy, the men can have to respond, even if she wants to pick the moon in the sky, the men will try to help her to do. The first time I saw a man, I was a little bit of a jerk.
From a guy’s point of view, first love guys are often still in their infancy, no love experience naturally do not know how to express love, the face of the girl’s mood, the face of the test every day must be tested, the face of the girl accused of not being romantic enough dissatisfaction, some guys will always feel at a loss, confused but do not know why. The first time a woman is allowed to color on the white paper, it may be because you met her before other men.
The biggest advantage of a first-time lover is that you are her first, but this is too simple and too sentimental a reason to withstand the rains of the years. The first time a woman is in love with a man, she will not be able to go back and forth, regardless of everything, to the fire, perhaps some men have experienced this first love woman all the emotional world of the grinding experience, experienced the first love woman asked the man all the emotional world, only to make some The man eventually chose to give up.
So, the first love became a secret buried in the hearts of men and women for the rest of their lives, even if they get married and have children later, even if they are about to leave the world, the kind of hazy emotions of the first love, or like spring shoots breaking ground, stupid. The first time you are in love with a person, you will be able to remember the first time you were in love with a person.
After all, the first love is the most beautiful experience in life’s emotions, because it is beautiful, so trivial and extraordinary, masculine and flowery is not enough to fill the stomach, love is ultimately reflected in the house, car, tickets and other very realistic material above, and ultimately in the pots and pans and salt and soy sauce and vinegar to polish off the romance of love, in the dull and uninteresting days to wear out the years of life, and the first love When the life of the beautiful ideals and visions, eventually will be the real life relentless dream smashed, the romance of first love will eventually become the real world of lace and embellishment. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Perhaps the man who finally chooses to give up his first girlfriend will say that she is not fit to be a wife. The real life is the reason why men will give up their first love woman, just men are not confident about the future uncertain life, they always feel that they can not give their first love girlfriend to meet her requirements of the kind of living environment, the kind of material conditions, so in this love run, the first love man’s nothing and extreme lack of confidence will eventually let themselves fail in front of reality, had to look for a time when exhaustion can The first time I saw the company, I had to find a nice excuse to keep my self-respect, whistling a sad tune and turning away.
In fact, exhausted men and first love women, just want a home of their own, and with a very ego I first love women married is very tired, or marry a know how to share the worries of people, understanding non-first love women as a wife, in the time of the storm, can understand a little more themselves, can share the storm, share the sun, can have more warmth and tacit understanding.