Men always think they are hiding seamlessly, but when they cheat, how can women not notice it?
Getting the timing right
The first time she attended her boyfriend’s unit outing, she was surprised to find a pair of eyes staring at her with jealousy. When her boyfriend helped her carry her bag, when he carried her barefoot across the river, when he paid for her crystal pendant, other colleagues joked and joked while the woman was depressed.
What made her suspicious was that her boyfriend took the initiative to go to the woman when she wasn’t looking, and the woman ignored him, clearly a jealous woman in love.
She decided to have a talk with her boyfriend to find out what was going on with them, and to sound his alarm. The company’s main goal was to find out what was going on between the two of them.
“If you don’t believe me, ask her!”
“You can ask her if you don’t believe me.” He said, “I don’t know what to say.
Reason for failure: wrong timing of the conversation
The danger of talking to your boyfriend right after you notice something a little out of the ordinary is that maybe he has nothing to do with the woman he works with, and only when you remind him does he realize that someone at work has a crush on him.
The evidence B has is nothing more than self-perception and speculation. The most disgusting thing about men is that their wives or girlfriends are always trying to catch the smallest things. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Men know very well that if they indulge these little suspicions, they will never have any peace.
Tips:
1. No matter how much you believe in your sixth sense, please talk to him after you have found the “problem” three times. This way you don’t wrong him, and you give yourself time to digest the problem and think about it calmly.
Unless what you find in the beginning is a fatal link, such as kissing in the street or even catching him in bed.
If we find such problems, we have nothing to talk about.
2. When men and women have been together for a long time, a little ambiguity is inevitable, especially under the watchful eye of your eyes. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Talk to your best friend about your unlucky discovery and ask her to help you analyze whether you’re being paranoid and whether it’s necessary to talk to him seriously about such a “little thing”.
3. Even if the sky is falling, give yourself at least one day to calm down. The first time you talk, of course, you are more impulsive, impulsive to say is often subjective “unreasonable” words, it is difficult to convince people with virtue.