I remember a friend telling me that the smarter people are, the dumber the things they do. The more you think about it, the more stupid you are. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. Feelings have become a demand that can not be met, everyone wants, but not many people can pat their chests and say that my feelings are not a problem. The countless people behind the talk of the town have heartbreaking emotional scars, like fine salt dormant in the wounds from time to time to make you squeak in pain!
One, be as forgetful as a goldfish
Nine times in life, it’s normal to encounter something unfortunate. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. It is a good idea to summarize what unfortunate feelings bring to us as an elective, but won’t you miss more if you give up your required courses for the elective? Women have a really poor ability to repair themselves emotionally, and an insignificant relationship can knock a woman’s confidence and charm back into shape. There are too many women who can’t walk out of the shadows of their past and carry a cross for the rest of their lives. The future of the road of love women still have to go, then brave face, and then face the future with a smile. The world’s three-legged toad is not good to find two-legged people or a lot of them!
Two, be thicker than the grapefruit’s cheek
As the saying goes: men chasing women across the mountain, women chasing men across the veil. Sisters see a good man do not miss out because of reserve, and finally come to regret. Like my mother said, meet a good man do not let go. Not to say that when you meet a man like a nymphomaniac on the front and back, but so that women can take each of their feelings seriously, try their best not to leave regrets, not all things are hindsight, all the last everyone is in pairs on you alone. Good for yourself is something that should be done, tell others and the people you love that you love him is the wisest thing, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Don’t wait for a good man to tire himself out to fill the gap, but know your own heart to take the initiative, even if you fail and don’t let yourself leave regrets!
Three, to selflessly love themselves selfishly love men
Women always have too much love and tears, maternal flooding after always keep a person secretly wipe tears child. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I think it will not lose to the mother’s love. Selfish love of men may feel unfair to many men, but a woman even love their own wishy-washy, lost, and how she can really give her man enough love and care? Be a maverick woman, they may have a very different personality, perhaps a little big woman, but they are their own master, they will not deliberately cater to the preferences of men, will not give without restraint, will not lose nothing. Understand and understand their own needs, reasonable arrangements for their lives and feelings, will not be because of the rules of the world and the so-called fate of bowing or begging, know their own life, determine the things will do their best to complete. Know yourself to live a better life!
Fourth, understand that giving up is another kind of possession
The world gives women a wider world, but also gives women another kind of responsibility that can not escape, so many women for this responsibility to give up the love, there are also a lot of women for love to give up this responsibility! Career achievement of a legend written for women, but also for the back of the strong women painted countless pale. Women tend to work harder for the life they hold on to, so much so that in the end they miss out on much, much more. For their own sake and for the sake of life, we should learn to give up, give up should not have obsession. Give up a long-expired relationship, to wait for the love of your people and yourself a chance; give up a job that even they are suffocating, ask yourself what you want to relax the tense nerves; give up the busy life, return to nature to give the body and mind a long vacation; give up the unpleasantness of stubbornness, with a smile in the face of living every day. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
V. Not putting your eggs in one basket
Not putting your eggs in one basket is an old saying, in today’s terms it means doing both! I’m talking about economics here. We should be somewhat adventurous about life, but we can’t lose ourselves to the risk. Can’t feel good things to just ask for, without considering the other party’s economic and personal strength, to be just right. Women in the face of feelings can not throw in the towel, should learn to give with reservations, both in feelings and money. We earn money to make ourselves better off, not to give us backwards men, not to squander for some unknown reason, and then find excuses to ask for money like a man. We deliberately give men the opportunity to buy, but we should also let both sides get along on equal footing. So women need to learn to save money, and learn to spend men’s money.
Six, learn to say byebye beautifully!
Not everyone can turn around beautifully after a relationship has come to an end. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. A woman often thinks she’s strong and will give 100 percent of her only ten percent of her feelings to the person she loves, but ends up letting herself get stuck in the memories and feeling sorry for herself. Feelings should stand on a relatively equal footing, and extreme imbalances can create bad relationship endings. Women tend to focus too much attention on a man, even if they know it is wrong will not hit the wall and not turn back, even if it is loaded will be a person to swallow the bitterness in the stomach. They have forgotten that a person who can’t even take care of himself how to take care of others, a person who can’t even love himself how to love others and be loved by others, a person who even said goodbye to yesterday how to have a good future. The only way to get the most out of love is to know what to do, know how to be forgiving, and know how to cherish.
VII. Say NO like YES.
Women are always too soft-hearted, always hesitant when facing bad things and people, and a careless one will have a flower name. Women in hesitation will make the men who want to approach afraid to approach, close to the men feel no freshness, unknowingly will let a relationship to the end. Women should learn to reject men’s unsuspecting close, learn to use reasonable rejection to protect themselves. Women face their favorite people always a strong YES, never think there is the right and opportunity to say NO. In fact, the rejection is very simple, to calm down to see this thing for you to say is good or bad, and then firmly say NO, the first time you open up is a new beginning! Women in order to make their own not to drop the price should learn to refuse!