When extramarital affairs began to be condemned by society, some people were pressured not to cheat physically, but to “escape” mentally through letters, text messages, and the Internet.
Male and female mental cheating will generally have some of the following performance:
Frequently find excuses not to go home, at home also prefer to be alone
Couples have a mental cheating phenomenon of one party, will feel home boring, often find excuses not to go home, even if home, is also preferable to a person Alone. If the other partner is used to watching TV after dinner, then he or she plays on the computer or finds an excuse to do something else. Just idle boredom, but also do not want to entertain with the other party. Some couples encounter this situation, thinking that the blandness of their marriage is a necessity, when in fact, this blandness is lurking a deep crisis.
Inexplicably bored and rejected
The partner who is mentally cheating will have someone else inside him or her who has moved on, whose attention is often on another person, and will find the couple’s life boring or uninteresting, and will feel that the current partner is just tired and redundant. So, when the other person has something to ask, or the other person wants to initiate intimacy, it is often rejected.
Compare each other to others, see each other as bad at everything
In marriage, see each other as bad at everything, even the smallest things, blame each other, deliberately pick on each other, even if the other person deliberately behaves, but always as he or she wants, and compare each other to others, both explicitly and implicitly, the more interesting the comparison becomes.
Wouldn’t want to give in to the other person and ignore them when they get angry
Wouldn’t want to give in to the other person, even if the other person cries with aggression, but would leave them alone and go about their own business or find their own pastime. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Can’t remember each other’s birthdays, and gifts are only perfunctory
When one spouse is mentally cheating, it’s impossible to keep the heat on the marriage, even if you want to. So, often forgetting each other’s birthdays, and even if they do remember, they don’t choose their gifts carefully, and even if they do send them, they are only perfunctory.
Appears indifferent to the other person’s emotional response
The partner who has had a spiritual affair appears to be unconcerned about the other person’s emotional response, and he/she is unhappy when you are happy, and indifferent when you are sad.
There are often little secrets inside that they don’t want to share with the other person
The partner who has had a spiritual affair often hides something personal inside and doesn’t want to share it with the other partner. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
They treat each other’s friends and family coldly and sometimes want to hide away
Material cheating may be for sex only, while spiritual cheating is more likely to be a spiritual affair. So, the manifestation of this in real life is that the other half of the marriage is no longer considered the closest person, and of course, the other person’s family and friends want to keep their distance even more, even if they are not enthusiastic and are not in the mood anymore, and want to avoid it desperately.