It is human nature to be averse to the old, and society is moving forward day by day. As a woman, how can she not be eliminated by the times and how can she keep her husband intact?
The first one: to strengthen their own quality, strengthen their own cultural cultivation, to keep pace with the times.
And thus keep up with your husband or boyfriend. The values and family views of men in modern society have changed greatly. A silly, docile, open-eyed girl who doesn’t know what’s going on in the world can’t tether the heart of a powerful man. From ancient times to the present. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Many polls have found that what men prefer and need is a smart, hip, intelligent partner. In modern society, taking care of children and cooking and washing clothes is not a wife’s job, but has long been replaced by nannies, kindergartens, fancy hotels and restaurants.
No. 2: Be fully confident.
Men like women who are confident. Confidence can turn a mediocre face into a radiant one. It is important to cultivate and protect your charm. Charm doesn’t come from the face, and I’m against putting a knife in my own face. I don’t think I would ever go for cosmetic surgery. Natural and real is the most beautiful. We only find ways to protect ourselves carefully. Delaying aging is doable. My sister called me from France to tie the knot and told that she wanted to get a facelift. I immediately told her in a firm voice, “If you get plastic surgery, I will never like you again. I like you the way you are now. The face doesn’t matter at all.”
No. 3: Don’t love so much you lose yourself.
The women in this category are the most likely to be abandoned by men. They give the most and lose the most. If you give all of yourself as a gift, the other person will think it’s too easy to get and will put it aside without pity. I have many male friends who are divorced or in a bad relationship with a third party. And their wives are not at fault. I asked them why? They said they didn’t know. After thinking about it for a long time, they answered me: Maybe I didn’t chase them!
No. 4: Give each other some freedom, give each other enough space.
It is very important for couples to keep a certain distance from each other. If you suffocate a man, the man will get sick of you. It’s important to keep each other fresh for you. If he spends all day with you, he will feel bored one day. Let him do his own thing, and it’s enough to be with you outside of eight hours or at night.
No. 5: Remember that marriage is only an obligation, never a right.
Never hurt a man’s pride and always give each other face! Many women treat men as their private property after they get married. Move to give a face to see, drop the table. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem. In the face of others brushed off and so on, serious often quarrelsome, public discipline husband completely no woman’s gentleness, a commanding look. Initially in love when the courteous, gentle and elegant disappeared. The original face is exposed. You should know that the man is married to you and not to sell him to you, why give people angry suffer? All people are good face, men especially to save face. If you do not give him face in public once. Afterwards, you even willingly cook for him a year to make up for it. Even if you return home and then argue with him are much better than arguing and arguing in front of people. However, it is best not to argue, especially not over something trivial, something to the point, not to be reasonable.
No. 6: Adapt to each other, don’t try to change each other.
Remember not to chatter about your mouth. Don’t be a broken-mouthed mother-in-law. Remember that no one is perfect. The rule of thumb is that you are not perfect, and you can get rid of the nagging women’s disease that all men hate by seeking common ground while keeping the differences small.
No. 7: Anyone can live without anyone, don’t hang on a tree.
You and your husband, who never knew each other, became a couple by chance. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The sky will not fall. The world will not come to an end. Don’t put your hopes on others. Do not put the reins of fate into the hands of others, to master their own destiny. Then you will not be at a loss when the time comes for change. Be pessimistic and misanthropic. Make a mess of it.
No. 8: If you do everything you can to lose him anyway, then it’s better not to have him.
There is a type of man (and woman, of course) in the world that is born to be a woman. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. If you have the misfortune to meet this kind of person, it is your bad luck. In your own unlucky time to throw away all the illusions about him, leave him to find your new life, do not foolishly wait for him to change his mind. And will be your beautiful years for him wasted. In this world first you have to take care of yourself, if you do not take care of yourself, then I have to tell you. No one will take care of you. Don’t care too much about the age difference. It is not necessary to find a man stronger than you. Two people together with a heart to heart is better than anything else.