Today’s society is full of all kinds of temptations, there is money, there is beauty …… many people, in the face of temptation can not resist, the heart of the last line of defense was breached, embarked on a cheating road, may therefore lose their family and marriage.
Although the proportion of men and women cheating is not similar, but the signs before cheating are very different: men want to cheat, will hide the other half, afraid of being found, the heart has a guilty conscience, not home at night or home to fall asleep; women want to cheat will often turn around the man, the initiative to attack, constantly complaining, the subtext seems to be: I want to cheat, you look after it ……
Men who cheat before there are a lot of signs, there are some abnormal behavior, do you figure it out? Come see if the men around you have some of the following abnormal behaviors.
1. The phone does not leave your hand
The phone does not leave your hand is afraid that you will receive a phone call that you should not receive, or is worried about missing some important calls. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. At that time is passionate, and will not go jealous so much, received the phone is full of red face, the spring look. And when the lover relationship is established, the man began to worry, worried about his wife found, so will choose to hide, afraid of being found by you. A negligence of Fei Lao in “The Cell Phone” allowed his wife to receive a call from Liu Dan, revealing their unusual relationship. The phone is not only a tool for communication, but also a grenade that could be found at any time and set off a fuse.
2. Avoid physical contact with your significant other
People who cheat seem to have a bit of a clean slate and no longer want to touch your body. A part of the reason is tired of you, another reason is to you have a guilty conscience, afraid of love to reveal their feet, and part of the reason is that he is already very hard outside the lover’s bed, back home has no time to deal with you, often will fall asleep, full of work too tired stress too much. The man’s ignorance will also lead the wife to seek other ways to comfort, or choose to masturbate or go out to find someone who can give her pleasure and make her sexually happy ……
3.The number of times she looks in the mirror increases
The love of beauty is there for everyone, but the kind of temperament that comes from within is definitely there. The air that comes from within is definitely something good happening to the body. It is said that being in love makes you more beautiful, and when you are dating you care more about your image.
Men usually don’t pay much attention to their image, maybe their clothes are a little dirty and they don’t care, or their socks aren’t turned properly and they don’t pay attention, their shoes aren’t clean and they don’t worry about it …… but men in love don’t, a little bit of hunger and small flaws they have to discard, because they want to show their best side. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good image.
4. Suddenly appear more affectionate
Be careful if you find your husband comes home and doesn’t cook or buy gifts, but recently buys you all kinds of gifts and becomes extra thoughtful. Because this time he either just cheated, or the third party just ran, in short, is guilty of you, afraid that you find abnormal, so numb you with material, sweet words.
Of course, not every time a man buys you a gift means he’s cheating, but also a certain comparison with the usual. If he usually also has the habit of buying you gifts, it is not surprising, and you do not have to care too much.
5. Discussing third party topics, never commenting
If your significant other sees a cheater-themed TV show and immediately changes the station, it fully illustrates his weakness. If you want to discuss a few words with him on the topic of cheating, he will definitely back off, the emotional writer says because it pokes a man’s sore spot. Generally speaking, women will not hold any good feelings about the junior, but because the man already has a third party, so his heart will not be very repulsive. So, men will be afraid to show their feet in the discussion of the topic, so that the woman to know. It is safer to say more than one thing, so men will not get involved in your discussion.
6. Have a new hobby
This is similar to like to look in the mirror. If one day you find that he has a life interest, a hobby of running and climbing, and does not need you to accompany him, this is a good indication that he has a new life where the sun shines on the earth. It takes a long time to develop a new habit, and requires lasting motivation, the man does not need you to accompany, proving that he has another motivation, and the man’s greatest motivation is the woman, the woman is not you! Men will go to learn new things and develop new hobbies for the sake of women. You need to be wary.
7. Love to lie
For the above signs of cheating, psychologist Park Chengang revealed himself that he often cheated when he was young, and the signs of cheating that were concentrated on him were that he liked to dress up himself, and his most contradictory behavior was to avoid physical contact with his girlfriend because of his weak heart, and to be doubly nice to her because of his guilt and to buy all kinds of gifts for her. The most obvious sign is the love of lying, and men lie, as women can see.
The biggest difference between men cheating and women cheating: men love to hide, women are loud
While the proportion of men and women cheating is comparable, but the signs before cheating are very different: men want to cheat, will hide the other half, afraid of being found, the heart has a guilty conscience, not home at night or home to sleep on the head; women want to cheat will be but The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
The human heart is hard to guess, but there are always behaviors that reflect the human heart, just like what Yu Wenjuan said to Yan Shouyi in “The Phone”: As soon as you lie, some part of you will change. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.