There are a thousand different reasons why a man might cheat. The most important thing is that it is not just a matter of the values of the man, but also of the personality of the man, as well as the differences in knowledge and learning.
In more than a decade of marriage counseling, there are several situations where men cheat.
The first type of cheating is the strong woman and weak man type
There is a case: the visitor is a woman of about 45 years old, beautiful and dignified, working with a good income, her husband has a business family of tens of millions of dollars, the child is a boy who is already a junior high school student, the conflict between the two people The focus of the conflict between the two people is that the woman strongly believes that the family’s money should be bought in several cities in China and the city where she wants to immigrate to have fixed assets, so as to have security and a sense of security. The man thinks that he is still young and afraid of what, he wants to use the money to invest in business to roll out more money instead of holding on to it, but the man can’t argue with the woman to invest in properties in Beijing, Sanya, and Australia respectively. The woman was satisfied and the man was depressed and eventually cheated on her.
The second type of cheating is when a man is very rich
The case in point: a 50-year-old woman who is very accomplished in physics confided in me. “I am the kind of woman who is very rational in my daily life and often helps others with counseling, but a bolt from the blue happened in my family. My husband and I have been in love for 30 years and our marriage is quite happy and stable. My husband has been doing business overseas and a few days ago he suddenly told me that he had been having an affair with an unmarried girl for nearly three years and is now pregnant. We have a couple of children who are each in college, and I don’t know how I would explain to my children if I did take that baby home.”
The third kind of cheating is caused by the opposite of values
The case is that of a 40-year-old man who is a mid-level leader in a company and said in counseling, “I don’t smoke or drink or play mahjong, but when I see a beautiful woman, I am attracted to her. The purpose of my consultation is to let you help me quit this bad habit, because I really love my wife, I also do not want to be moved, but when it comes to the heart, crying my wife found with me after the shock, my daughter in the fourth grade is always hiding in the toilet in tears. Seeing this miserable scene for the husband and father of my heart are broken, how I do not want to next time. Can you help me? Can you save my family?” After saying these words, this middle-aged man man howled and cried.