So what is a one-night stand? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
The first time I saw a woman and a man who were not previously friends was when they had sex in certain situations because of a feeling, impulse, affection or to vent their loneliness.
And the American sociologist John K.C. defines it as a one-night stand based on animal attraction between a man and a woman, in which the protagonists mostly consider each other’s appearance, body, and other non-social factors, while ignoring the main reasons why lovers should be together, such as character, quality, and cultivation.
But today, with the rapid development of the Internet, one-night stands often become a curiosity and a thrill for some people, a way to release “sexual pressure” for a short period of time, and most people do not take into account the possible sequelae, which is the lack of health and safety, as well as the degradation of social morality, an open challenge to civilized society.
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Experts believe that in the past, under the influence of feudal consciousness, there were psychological misconceptions that sex was unhealthy, so people did not dare to pursue sex and sexual health too much, and pre-marital or non-marital sexual relations would be strongly condemned by society, and sex was in a state of confinement.
There is no doubt that the majority of men who have had one-night stands are in a more active and “positive” position, so what kind of men are most likely to have one-night stands?
The most likely factors for a man to have a one-night stand are as follows:
1. Married men or men who have had at least six months of sexual experience, know what sex is all about, have tasted the sweetness of sex, and have enough sexual desire to look for a one-night stand.
2. Men who have nothing better to do, freelance or work more leisurely, have that “leisure” and time to do so.
3. Men who have a wide range of contacts, often go out to all kinds of social entertainment, or often soak in the Internet.
4. Men with good eye sense, some men have talent in their bellies, but not necessarily appreciated by others, because they are not men who can attract the eye, while some men may not have much talent, but give a good first impression, such as good-looking handsome, or very good at playing the role of hero to save the beauty.
5. A very “big” man, who is willing to spend money, seems to be very generous, too much care for the family very stingy man certainly can not hook up with a one-night stand.
6. “Eloquent” men, good at sweet talk, good at coaxing women men, mute and inarticulate men, of course, can not attract women’s attention, one-night stand is not likely to happen.
7. Don’t mind the looks of your one-night stand partner, have enough tolerance, of course more likely to have a one-night stand, because it is a one-night stand, completely short one night, don’t have to invest emotionally, just to satisfy sex, if too serious, of course the probability of having a one-night stand is greatly reduced.
Of course men with the above possible factors are just more likely to have a one-night stand, just with more possibilities, and ultimately whether or not a one-night stand happens, the internal factors are the main thing, and men with enough reasoning and spiritual pursuit will be able to
Because one-night stands are based entirely on the animal attraction of both men and women, the male and female protagonists mostly consider each other’s appearance, body and other non-social factors, while ignoring the main factors that lovers should focus on when they get along, such as character, quality, cultivation, etc. Therefore, one-night stands are a regression, a degradation of people to animals. It is a complete departure from morality, ethics, and even more dangerous to health, contributing to the widespread spread of sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS, which ultimately endangers the entire human race.
I think that strictly speaking, “one-night stand” cannot be called a one-night stand because there is not much of a “love” factor in it, and it might be more appropriate to call it “one-night sex”.
I think it is more appropriate to call it “one night sex”.