A survey of women of childbearing age found that 50% of women had never had an orgasm, and many of them had no idea what an orgasm felt like, which is puzzling.
Generally speaking, it is considered normal for women not to have an orgasm within a year or two of their first sexual encounter. And as couples become sexually harmonious and skilled, the highest level of this best sex life is only developed, and women’s desire for sex increases significantly after they have an orgasm. A harmonious and high quality sex not only enhances the emotions between the couple, but also relaxes the whole body and benefits the mind and body of both parties.
With the emancipation of people’s minds, the concept of sex has also progressed. The company’s main goal is to provide a more effective and efficient way to improve the quality of its products. People’s concept of sex is gradually changing, from the rejection of sex to the acceptance of sex, women’s concept of change is more significant. Many women will pursue orgasm, experience the pleasure of sex, they will put effort into this, will create a romantic environment, the use of sexy lingerie, sex toys and other more interesting sex, to increase the chances of orgasm. However, they often ignore some of the hidden killers in sex. Here are the top 7 sex killers that women should definitely pay attention to, take a look.
1. Negative sexual attitudes
In China, intercourse has always been considered an obscure topic, and even couples don’t just make it a topic of conversation. China’s education is not sufficiently skewed toward sex education, leaving many women to receive inappropriate sex education during their teenage years or early childhood.
These negative conceptions of sexuality are, according to psychoanalytic theory, hidden in the mind in subconscious form and can have a profound effect on sexual attitudes and behavior in adulthood. For example, a daughter growing up in a divorced family grows up with her mother’s view that all men in the world are unreliable and negative. The daughter grows up with her mother’s view that all men are unreliable and negative, and attributes the hardships of life to the presence of men. The daughter grows up to be able to marry and have children, but lacks enthusiasm for sex.
2. Poor knowledge of sex
Many women are shy and inevitably blush when the topic of sex is brought up, let alone take the initiative to learn about sex.
For sex to be fun and for both partners to experience the pleasure of sex at the same time, one must have some knowledge of sex. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The lack of knowledge about women’s sexuality will definitely affect the couple’s sexual life and relationship, so it must be taken seriously.
3. Sexual environment
Sex is a very private activity, in addition to the couple can not have other people involved, if the sex environment is not safe, such as sharing a set of rooms with others, or the walls are not soundproof, worried about the walls have ears or fear of temporary disturbance, etc., will cause mental tension, energy is not easy to focus, naturally The first thing you need to do is to have a good time.
In addition to a safe environment for sexual intercourse, it is important to create a romantic and warm atmosphere during sex to make it seem more welcoming and to arouse each other’s desire. Couples in modern families should not only keep their doors and windows closed, but also take down their phones, turn off pagers and cell phones, etc. to ensure that they are not disturbed by accidents, and use perfume and music to create a romantic environment that will be memorable for him.
4. Physical discomfort or disease
The changing social environment, increased social pressure, and people’s lack of attention to sexual hygiene are all causing people to suffer from sub-health, and sexual discomfort or disease can interfere with sex.
Some women are reluctant to have sex at the request of their husbands when they are not feeling well, but are unable to do so and are worried about their husbands’ dissatisfaction. Sometimes genital inflammation causes pain during intercourse and interferes with orgasm.
When you are not feeling well or suffering from an illness, there is no need to rush into sex, you may want to wait until you are feeling better so that you can guarantee quality sex.
5. No safe contraception
Many men and women, especially young ones, do not pay attention to contraception, thinking that today’s painless abortion technology is very advanced and that there is no need to worry, even if you are pregnant, you can solve your worries in just ten minutes. However, it is only women who are injured by abortion after pregnancy, so it is important for women to protect themselves.
Some young men and women who have sex without safe and reliable contraception are too worried about whether it will cause pregnancy and are too nervous to have an orgasm, so why can’t they just try a condom?
6. Bad sexual experiences in early life
Individual women have had bad sexual experiences at some point before marriage, such as rape, seduction, abandonment after premarital sex, so that after formal marriage, the previous experiences clearly have an impact. Some women are concerned about hymen, which may both resent the sexual act and interfere with the attainment of orgasm because of guilt.
7. Husband’s sexual dysfunction
Some women are perfectly normal, but their husbands are sexually dysfunctional, especially, so that it is almost difficult for women to achieve orgasm, if their husbands know how to clitoral caress or mouth-genital contact, which can make some women achieve clitoral-type orgasm, or not at all.
There are killers of sex that women must be aware of so that they can create quality sex and a more harmonious couple relationship, do you remember?