Emotional Case:
Mr. Wang was tired after a long day of running to clients and came home from work. After he stepped in the door, he announced loudly, “I’m home!”
But there was no response at home: his wife was busy making dinner, his son was buried in a video game, and even his dog, Lai Fu, was busy eating dog food. No one answered him, and no one even bothered to look up at him.
Mr. Wang felt exhausted all of a sudden, as if all the hard work and effort of the day had lost its meaning, and he felt that he was of no importance to his family at all, like an invisible person, no one cared about him at all.
Growing up, he no longer likes to rush home after work, preferring to hang out at bars and movie theaters, becoming a “no-show tonight”.
When Mrs. Wang found that her husband was always missing from the dinner table she had worked so hard to prepare, she couldn’t understand what was wrong with her, thinking she was doing her best to be a good wife and mother.
Yi-kyun Chang’s answer: “Husband, you’ve worked hard – and it pays to work hard
Many women may not know that another important emotional need for men is to be appreciated for their efforts. “
Many women may not know that another important emotional need for men is to be appreciated for their efforts.
But you must know what I mean by “effort” here.
Remember when you first fell in love and your guy did something that would have moved heaven and earth?
These gestures of love are always flattering at first, but they usually don’t last long. The two of them have become an old married couple, and if they do something similar, for example, I have a friend who has been married for many years and has been in a meeting with his wife for half of the day, he was drenched like a chicken and showed up at her office with a bouquet of flowers, and the other half was not only not touched, but scolded him: “You’re crazy! Why do you make a fool of me? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
So when women stop appreciating a man’s contribution and even despise his feelings, men feel that life has lost all meaning.
As in the example of Mr. Wang, he felt that he had given so much to his family that when he returned home, they should have lined up to welcome him (or at least smile at him) and pay their respects and say “thank you for your hard work”. The company’s newest product is a new product, a new product that will be available to the public.
In fact, there are many small gestures that often send important messages: do you care about the efforts of others?
If you’re not a good person, you’re a good person.
If this lack of concern and appreciation persists, men’s emotional needs will not be met, and they will likely have to look in other directions to satisfy themselves. So then, there may be a change of heart.
So it’s definitely worth doing some small things if you want to satisfy your guy’s need to “try to be appreciated”.
For example, when your husband comes home, you might want to drop what you’re doing and walk to the door and say, “You’re home? You’ve worked hard!”
If you find it difficult to say this directly at once, you can also “pass on your feelings” by telling your child, “Daddy’s home, go get his bag and ask him if he had a hard time.” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So simply put, if you can always have a sense of gratitude, the rewards will be overwhelming. And after he takes out the trash and washes the dishes for you, don’t forget to say in a grateful tone, “Thank you! You really did me a big favor.”
Showing your gratitude with such simple words has actually met a man’s emotional needs and captured his heart.
And the next time, he’ll be more than happy to go through the fire for you.