Perhaps in this city we are also unknowingly ambiguous, those various kinds of ambiguity are so close to us ……
Ambiguity 1: Brother and sister or sibling
For the “brother
For the “big brother”, the existence of the little sister means that he has the desire to protect her, when the male inner heroism needs to pour out, when he feels helpless and lonely, the “little sister” of good behavior and tenderness often makes him feel more comfortable than the general tenderness and consideration, and her worship of him, it is Let him feel extra confident, just to meet the man’s desire for some kind of spiritual conquest. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see it.
For the “sister,” before there was a perfect boyfriend, the “brother” was a very sweet little heel who had the double benefit of being a man and a boy. When she is in trouble, he will not betray his vows, and when she is maternal, he becomes a cute and innocent “little thing”. For the “brother,” the “sister” is often a trustworthy, feminine woman.
Potential crisis: In real life, most “affectionate” relationships tend to be difficult to develop into true love relationships. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Ambiguity II: Reds and Blues
When they are bored and encounter various life problems, they become “mutually supportive” fish, and once the water returns to the tide, they each swim away.
They are the only ones who can talk to each other, even if they have a lover.
In a way, this kind of relationship is mostly a spiritual love affair, and it can be said that they only lack physical communication compared to a lover’s relationship.
Even for the most innocent of red and blue friends, once one of the lovers is not open enough to understand, it is easy to be misunderstood as a third party; secondly, after all, it is a man and a woman, once the “wine meets the confidant a thousand cups less”, invested in deep love too much, inevitably “loose clothes and untie the belt”. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Ambiguity 3: Internet Lovers
On the Internet, they “fall in love” and even have a wedding, two strangers who have never seen each other before, and the word game is a source of dependence and interest for each other. They are addicted to it, and the internet makes them look “perfect”.
Unlike normal online relationships, these online lovers, most of whom don’t meet in person, rely on their imagination to create all sorts of romance and hypotheticals. Unlike real-life love, online lovers cost very little and are not subject to moral pressure.
Because what we love about each other is our imagination and the maze of words we create. So what if, in case of a meeting, the consequences are hard to imagine.
Ambiguity #4: Heterosexual co-habitation
Compared to same-sex co-habitation, male-female co-habitation brings more of a sense of pleasure, trust and relaxation. The new relationship is full of another sense of interest, just like the sense of “men and women working together, not tired” in the office. The survey shows that most women of the opposite sex share a room: men will not be calculating with women, the size of the room, the orientation and the bathroom who use more, who use less and other details do not care, the situation between women and women is much more complicated, serious even to the point of disagreement, friends turned against each other.
Real men and women sharing a house respect each other, keep their distance, and can help each other. For both sides, they experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex, and avoid the trouble of being suspicious, exclusive and calculating with each other.
The house itself is already very ambiguous, and singles sharing a room, even if it’s not a room, are already very, very close. The people who come home tend to restore themselves to their true nature, casual, free, loose, and even ugly details of life are exposed to each other, although there are certainly very close to each other because of the lifestyle and develop into love, but after all, it is still a pair of men and women with distance. It is easy for the opposite sex in a shared house to develop into a couple, evolving from sharing to cohabitation.
But if you seek to share a house because of a moment of blindness, or with the mindset of solving personal problems, you risk being taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives, hurting your feelings and messing up your life.
Ambiguous 5: Part-time parents
Their relationship mostly develops from the work cooperation aspect. The woman is often the one who takes the initiative and decides that it is only natural to be taken care of by the man, and the man’s “heroic” mentality makes them feel honored most of the time. The relationship is often more exploitative.
Because such relationships are based on simply “taking care of each other and using each other”, men and women often lack a common language. The relationship is likely to deteriorate once the care fails, or the “service” is not good enough. In addition, some scandals also appear around such “part-time parents”, maybe you just took a ride on the side of whoever, but how do others know where the car ends?
Ambiguous 6: Dating partners
They are not couples, but they often date, travel, drink, watch movies …… and are regular dating partners. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. They often have a common interest in a hobby or a behavior, and each date can be excited, happy to come and happy to go. The company is also in the ginger-dude fishing mode, where one wants to accompany the other.
It seems that the new new male-female relationship has been divided more and more finely, according to duties, hobbies, specific functions, and other aspects. And therein lies the subtlety – things come in small packages.
If a dating partner’s relationship is stable and defined enough, based on common interests, it can be called like-minded. The first is that the person who is in a relationship with the other is a purely “n-companion”, which is suspiciously unclear. The first of these is the one who is willing to be accompanied by the one who is secretly in love with the one who wants to be accompanied, which is undoubtedly hurting the feelings of one of them and consuming the time of the other.