I’ve heard the phrase: Chinese men have a sister-in-law plot. In the ancient times, there was a concubine system, sister married sister accompanying, later became a maiden accompanying, and then if the sister died, in order to continue the relationship between the two families, there is a sister-in-law to fill the house thing, which is common in feudal society.
One, the sister-in-law is young and beautiful
Generally in the concept of the people: the sister will be more beautiful than the sister, most of the fairy tales of the sister, are both beautiful and kind, while the sister is much inferior to the sister. In addition, “like new and old” is a common problem of all men (in fact, it is not a disease, but a very normal human psychology), and people have constantly explore the “new field” of curiosity, so men like to young and beautiful “
They are not just a disease, but a very normal psychology.
Two, sister-in-laws are simple and easy to cheat
When Li Yu seduced E Huang’s sister Nuying, she was fifteen years old. A woman in her prime, a young girl in her prime, always has all kinds of fantasies about men, and the “brothers-in-law” who are not too far apart in age become the dreamers of these young girls.
Because of their youthful ignorance, “sisters-in-law” are often unprepared for the men around them who are related to them.
The men with “sister-in-law complexes” are veterans of women’s psychology, and they can easily lure these young girls into their hands.
Even if the wife and mother-in-law know about it, the most they can do is to shut the door and beat the dog, and then open the door and let it out, and the dog becomes a man again. The heart of the hand is flesh ah, this kind of thing is really not too deal with, hitting to which side will make a stabbing wound.
Three, sister-in-law without blood relations
In real life, most men still have the most basic conscience, moving their own mothers as well as their own daughters and sisters, after all, is only a small part, that is to be struck by the lightning.
But it’s different when it comes to the unrelated sister-in-law, the “brothers-in-law” often have the advantage of being “close to the water,” and they are fast and furious. “The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Fourth, the risk of seducing your sister-in-law is relatively low
When a man is tired of his wife, although he has the heart to go outside and mess around, most men still don’t have the guts to try, because most Chinese men are top smart and cunning, they will have consequences for their actions. Calculated on an account: if you go to “explore” and “develop” other women’s “new territory”, it is to take a big risk, not only to spend a lot of money, but also to spend considerable energy, if a little carelessness, but also to get a lot of money. If you are not careful, you will also get a “chicken but lost rice”, “lost and lost” the end: the expansion of the “new territory” lost, their own “
But it’s not a good idea to have a fire in the backyard.
But if you’re going after your sister-in-law, the “risk” is much smaller. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And this kind of “extramarital love”, mixed with affection, is not easy to be noticed, – into the attack; secondly, the relationship between sisters is generally very good, in case the attempted seduction of sister-in-law, she is from the point of view of protecting the sister’s feelings, usually will tolerate or forgive brother-in-law’s behavior, not too embarrassed brother-in-law –
Then again, from a wife’s psychological point of view, the average wife will take a stoic approach to this kind of “embarrassment”, “family shame must not be revealed”, “one step back and the sky is the limit”. “The two are their closest relatives, which side of the fight is painful in their own heart.
Five, inertia
Since ancient times, China has a tradition of “many sons, many blessings”, so it is normal for a family to have seven or eight sisters, so the chances of a Chinese man becoming a brother-in-law are quite high. In addition, China’s thousands of years of tradition, the restrictions on the interaction between strange men and women is quite strict – “men and women do not receive each other”. In this non-open social state, there are few options for Chinese men to have an affair other than seducing their sister-in-law.
On the contrary, the ancient “sisters-in-law”, who are generally unknown to the people in the deepest of the country, “do not come out of the gate, two doors do not move”, when she began to be curious about men and fantasies, to think of love and male love, brother-in-law is undoubtedly the most suitable choice. The choice. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The times are changing, people are progressing, society is developing, and now many Chinese men don’t know what a “sister-in-law” is anymore, especially the post-80s “Chinese brothers-in-law”, because this generation is almost all only children, their husbands are only sons, their wives are only daughters.
The Chinese government’s “Chinese sisters-in-law” are the only children of this generation, and their husbands are the only sons, and their wives are the only daughters, which saves these men from having too much contact with their “sisters-in-law” in their wives’ families.
The “sister-in-law complex” has slowly faded, and may one day die, unless China’s “one-child” policy is loosened and the phenomenon of multiple children and grandchildren and four generations living together returns!
And as people open up and change their mindset, the “sisters” will no longer be as tolerant as the ancient women, and the “mothers-in-law” will no longer “turn a blind eye”. “
The risk of the “brothers-in-law” seducing their “sisters-in-law” is only getting bigger.
At the same time, as men and women become more open to each other, the “sisters-in-law” are no longer just seeing their “brothers-in-law” with their eyes open. The “sisters-in-law” circle is constantly flooded with more and more other people of the opposite sex, both of which are expanding the space for choice. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
So now Chinese men’s “sister-in-law complex” can only be imagined in dreams and remembered in history!