Women often calm down after a one-night stand and start to regret what they have done.
One, hurt
This is the root cause of girls who frequently look for one-night stands, from their hearts.
The most is being abandoned by their boyfriend, who is often their first man, the first man they thought they could trust for life. So after breaking up with them, the psychological damage is so great that they don’t believe in love, so they start to deliberately indulge themselves and use one-night stands to mend the wounds of their hearts.
And because of the disappointment of love, coupled with the hatred of their own indulgence, such complicated feelings can lead to the psychological belief that they are a bad girl and indulge themselves even more, so they frequently seek one-night stands.
In fact, it’s just a catharsis of emotions, they use extreme feelings to release the gloom in their hearts, at this time the one-night stand, for them is just a disguised self-abuse, like a wounded beast, but constantly tearing their wounds, so that the wounds keep bleeding ……
What I want to tell this kind of girls is
I want to tell these girls that they don’t have to be in pain in order to feel their existence, but you can actually change back. It’s not easy to live in the first place, so please love yourself and your body.
II. Anger
A moment of anger can make a big difference to a person.
This kind of girl tends to be more lively and hot-tempered. Often after a fight with their boyfriends, they deliberately use one-night stands to calm themselves down. In fact, their hearts just want to vent, as a child, the heart of the thought is that the boyfriend so do not care about me anyway, I want to deliberately angry with him. In fact, she just wants someone to care about her, so it’s often easy to have a one-night stand with a guy who can comfort her to find that loss.
But often after a one-night stand, when the mood calms down, she starts to regret what she did. Often many teenage girls become young women in such a moment of anger …… Quote: Men often regret not having sex with a particular woman; women regret having sex with a particular man.
I hope these kinds of girls can calmly consider three minutes before looking for a one-night stand, in fact, you can use a more appropriate way to balance their mood, such as chatting up ……
Three, lonely
Lonely hearts often need to be appeased.
When there are long, long nights with no one around, psychological loneliness is often the reason why many single women have one-night stands. In fact, there is not much need for sex, just to find someone to keep you company and spend the long night with yourself. One-night stands are a way to fill the yearning for warmth and the fear of loneliness. These girls are generally open-minded and advanced in their thinking …… full of a thirst for romantic feelings.
I would like to say that attention to contraception ……
Fourth, lust
The pursuit of sexual desire.
Eating sex is also sex. With the opening of the concept, many women are more direct in expressing their desires. They look for one-night stands is the naked sexual needs of the, often divorced ah, the husband is not around for a long time ah …… In fact, women and men alike, have a physical need for sex, so they are eager to meet their physical needs through one-night stands. Freud asserted in “An Illusory Future” that “man is an imbecile and weak creature governed by instinctive desire.”
V. Curiosity
Curiosity about sex.
Because the Internet is now filled with a lot of knowledge about sex, often tempting young children, so that their newly budding hearts, curious about sex, coupled with the many eager perverts online, such little sisters are easy to get into the mouths of the perverts, becoming victims of one-night stands.
Because the internet brings people of all ages together, not wanting to admit their naivety often becomes the Achilles heel of little kids. After losing her virginity, maybe she doesn’t understand what happened …… Since they are at a rebellious age, they always have a fearless mentality to pursue excitement and fun, only to bring themselves all over the place ……
What I’m trying to say is. Don’t look at what you shouldn’t look at, don’t do what you shouldn’t do, and do yourself a favor.
Six, other
Other is other ……
There are various reasons, not to mention one by one, such as the need to work ah (hey, what occupation we understand in our hearts), special hobbies, for national unity or something ……
No matter what I don’t want you to try one night stands, because women who have had one night stands say they feel great at the time, but then most of them say they regret it! There are many reasons for this – either you get an STD, or your husband or boyfriend finds out about the consequences, or you feel sorry for yourself and think you’re wasting your youth and life with this kind of play!