Life is made up of the little things that add up, and marital happiness is made up of the little things. Do a few little things every day to keep your marriage full of happiness!
He’s going to do these
1. Hug her and praise her every day, as many times as you want and on as many occasions as you want. If you slack off or shy off because you feel like an old married couple, beware, she will start to feel in her heart that you don’t love her as much as you used to.
2. Make the necessary and effective suggestions for her dress or makeup in a timely manner. The first thing you need to do is to ask for your opinion, but don’t say “okay” without looking up. This will make her feel like you don’t care about her. Think about it, many arguments are about these trivial things.
3. Know her size and don’t refuse to go to the lingerie store with her.
The man who accompanies women to the lingerie store is a good man, the man who can buy lingerie for women is definitely quality, and the man who can buy back the “right” lingerie is the best type of quality.
4. If you’re going to meet up with a friend, make sure you tell her beforehand, and tell the truth. The first thing you need to do is to ask for time off before you go to see your college friends (your first love will also be there) or go to a bar with your buddies to watch a hot dance. Otherwise, when the paper doesn’t cover the fire, you’ll get a taste of what happens to women once they feel they’ve been cheated on.
5. Don’t leave work with female colleagues after working late. Yes, office gossip must be prevented before it happens, avoid it if you can, and give the opportunity to those single men!
6. Keep your phone on “welcome check” at all times. If there’s no secrets, of course you’re “welcome to check”. The more open you are, the less likely you will be to check in secret.
7. If you have a confidante, make her your mutual friend. Of course, the best case scenario is that you never need another confidante, and your ultimate and only confidante is her.
8. Influence her with your own hobbies, don’t enjoy them alone. The same applies in marriage. Whether you like to play football, hiking, exploring or even playing Chinese chess and painting, develop her as your “downline” and become a realistic version of the “Eagle Sculptor”!
9. Make the weekend a total “family day”. This is important, at least on the weekends, you belong to her and the family, “family day” is an important nerve center for building security, no matter how late you usually come home, at least she will know that you will always be with her on the weekends.
10. Care about her, including her emotions, her health, her friends, all the little things. It just takes a little more care and patience, and caring doesn’t have to be a verbal or superficial far-fetched act; a regular text or phone call is enough to warm her heart.
She has to do this
1. Help him straighten his tie in the morning before work, and help him to stroke his hair that is not so obedient. The smallest details will also make a man feel warm and soft, and when these details become habitual, he will be more at ease and will be more inseparable from you.
2. Buy him well-fitting, good quality underwear. This way he will have a subtle good feeling every day: my wife bought this for me! Will he have the heart to cheat?
3. Remember every special day and celebrate it with him. This doesn’t have to be a man’s job, but a woman’s way of celebrating will be more thoughtful and romantic, and will allow him to feel more warmth and love.
4. Know what he likes to eat, and be willing to learn and practice. The idea of “capturing a man’s stomach is the same as capturing his heart” is a bit outdated, but it really works. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Make “honey worked hard” a mantra.
5. Make “Honey worked hard” a mantra. Whether you come home from work or fix an appliance or faucet, don’t forget to hug him and say “Honey worked hard”.
6. Walk away quietly when he wants to be alone. It is said that men have a “caveman” period, when they have problems, they are used to being alone to quietly sort out their thoughts, this time, do not have to express your concern, quietly walk away, he will appreciate your thoughtfulness and understanding.
7. Don’t rush to give him advice when you’re sure he’s troubled. Unless he formally asks for it, then you should never rush to troubleshoot his problems. Have faith that he will be able to handle it, or he will feel deeply hurt because you are clearly expressing a lack of trust in his ability to do so.
8. Don’t mind letting him pull out his gray hair for you. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
9. Dress yourself, and dress him. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you are always the best couple in your friends’ eyes. You are not afraid to keep him young and handsome forever because you have not lost your confidence – how can a woman who is not confident in herself give security to others?
10. Love him and say it. Again, no matter the occasion or the number of times. Don’t always push him to “love me,” instead, remember to tell him when you do.