Recently, there is another beautiful girl around me who is marrying a man 15 years older than her. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I think it’s important to give a heads up to young wives who are married to older husbands, even though I’ve listed the benefits of older marriages on this blog.
Each of us has to bring our own bets with us when we get married, betting that the other person is a responsible person, betting more on the other person’s ability to make each other happy for life …… and so on and so forth, and the bets vary from marriage to marriage. So what bets do women have to make to marry an older man?
One: the transition from love to marriage.
It’s often said that it’s easy to love and hard to get along, but it’s also a matter of transitioning from love to marriage. It is very easy for a woman to fall in love with a man who is more than ten years older than she is. But if you want to mention marriage, it’s really not an easy thing. Just think, and many years older than their first meeting with the man, it is difficult not to be impressed by its mature words and actions and temperament, its psychologically speaking, that is because they do not have and others have. Once a long time, the man behind the maturity of some of the other byproducts associated with maturity also appeared, for people formal, smooth and worldly, do not know the mood, more social …… at the same time, from the man’s side, the woman’s initial naivety and cuteness will become ignorant and rude, as for the breath of youth will also be ignored The actual fact is that the actual person is not a person. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Two: the difference in life experience and values.
It’s not just love that determines the success or failure of a marriage, there are many cases in real life where the passion for love alone does not lead to marital happiness. In fact, marriage is more of a mutual acceptance and recognition of the two people in the family after love, which implies the life experience of each other and the identification of values. If the difference is too far, no matter how passionate the love of two individuals, such a marriage will certainly fail. The reason why I say this is because I will always measure the age of a person’s experience and value differences with the eyes of the world, especially in today’s rapid social development, people’s thoughts and spiritual dynamics as the morning opening of the stock market, the day must experience several ups and downs to stop, not to mention the age difference of more than ten years of two individuals. We often hang on the mouth of the post-90s, post-80s and post-70s, in fact, this is not for artificial reasons and imposed on the name, but they are from the values, habits, dress and living, eating, drinking, and even acting style are very different. It seems that a woman who married a man more than ten years older than herself, it is a very big risk. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three: the imbalance of mutual constraints in marriage.
I think the most valuable and headache of marriage is that it never knows how to stop, flirting, bickering, fighting, jealousy, these are all essential elements of marriage. The problem has to be solved in time before new problems arise, thus forming a balance of mutual restraint and mutual needs, so that the days of decades will be passed. However, if you want to let two people too much age difference in marriage to form a balance of mutual constraints is a very difficult thing, first of all, not to mention the potential crisis that I mentioned in the previous two articles, a simple model from one side to one side, who is in charge of who? Men are older, in terms of age may be enough to do the woman’s father, should we let the daughter control the father? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So, the above three points, I think it is worthwhile for girls to think about when choosing a man many years older for marriage, not only to consider the character, personality, love and sincerity of the other party, but also to weigh their tolerance for others, their awareness of society, their resilience to difficulties, and even to think about each of the three bets I mentioned earlier.