The bad habits of marriage are like smelly socks lying around the house; people have become accustomed to its accompaniment and live in it for a long time without smelling it.
Watching TV during dinner
This can further limit the opportunities for couples to interact face-to-face. It is advisable for couples not to watch TV during dinner, and even if they do, they should choose a program that both of you enjoy; a common hobby will make you feel close and have room to communicate.
After a long period of no sex
With a steady decline in sex, the body and brain begin to adapt to a “zero intimacy” marriage and may eventually become “sexless. The first requirement to prevent this is to express your desire to your partner when you feel the urge to have sex, even if you can’t enjoy it immediately.
Hot words stimulate the brain to secrete chemicals that ignite the body’s desire. Once you’ve promised your partner “rain”, keep your end of the bargain or the other person will be “sexually injured”.
Being too busy during the day to talk to your partner
Not hearing from your lover all day can make you anxious and frustrated at first, but over time you can become comfortable with it, and the red light can go off. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
For example, use the Internet to send an email or chat to say hello; set an alarm on your phone and send a text message to your partner at a certain time to ask how you’re doing; call your partner when you walk past the store to ask if you need to buy something. Slowly, these actions will become your habits, and it will make your partner feel cared for at all times.
Getting used to shopping alone
Many women carry the burden of caring for their families and often feel like they can get things done alone, such as buying everyday items on a regular basis. Although you mean well, to some men this means they are “irrelevant” or not trusted in the family. In time, they will put off doing more of their share of the work, such as fixing furniture, cleaning, etc.
Women should keep in mind that they should ask their husbands to go shopping with them, even if it’s just to drive them around.