A man who has been through a marriage, who has loved, hurt, wounded, and then given up, the uncle man is mature and flavorful, but lacks the freshness of a dry hand of men.
Eight depreciation points of divorced uncles
One, he has become less and less romantic.
Because of the failure of one marriage, divorced men become calm and rational. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem of the problem. Because the romance they once had is now an empty one, they become very realistic. They believe that reality is reliable, and that romance is a fairy tale of 18 years old and far away.
Two, he may indulge in lust.
This is a pansexual age, where the pursuit of pleasure and sexual liberation has become the collective unconscious of many men. When a man is released from the constraints of marriage, it is easy for him to get more sex because he can’t resist the various temptations. Indulgence in sex can sometimes be addictive, and foreign studies show that many single men suffer from “one-night stand addiction”. If you are married to such a man, can you trust him to quickly withdraw from his addiction to one-night stands?
Three, he becomes more money conscious.
When a man first falls in love, he can say to the woman that he wants the beauty but not the mountain, but in this economy, maybe a property dispute at the end of a marriage will leave him with nothing. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
4. He has become passionless.
Most divorced men are in their thirties. Unlike a woman in her thirties, a man in his thirties is different from a woman in her thirties, and while a woman’s sexuality is going uphill at that age, scientific studies show that a middle-aged man’s sexuality is going downhill. So, he may not last long enough; because he has to work hard, people are under great pressure in middle age, he may not be so keen on sex; he may not be as lively and powerful as when he was young, and you may feel like lukewarm and passionless when you have sex with him, if you don’t want to experience the twilight feeling of sex as soon as you get married, then, be cautious.
V. He is always ready to divorce again.
Although divorce is painful, the human heart is immune and time is the best medicine for healing wounds. Once a divorced man comes out of the trauma of losing his marriage, he leaves the pain behind and instead becomes more determined about the freedom and unrestrainedness within. So, if you and he have conflicts, he will be difficult to compromise to make up for it, because in his view, divorce is no big deal. After all, “I’ve been divorced once, but also to live well?” -He would think so.
Somehow there may be a flaw in his personality.
Successful marriages are a litmus test of a man’s maturity. A good marriage requires a man to be: forgiving, considerate, responsible, healthy, career-minded, mature, and so on. No marriage is perfect, the reverse of this statement, any marriage means that a person and another person’s mutual consultation, joint efforts, and continuous problem solving before stabilization. So a divorced man, who is likely to be somewhat flawed in some way, has not eliminated these flaws yesterday, and then inevitably will repeat the same old mistakes in his future life.
VII. He is forever gaining ground.
The reason a significant number of men who get divorced but don’t remarry for a long time is that he wants to find something better. Think about it, just tap the keyboard to enter any dating site, the world’s beautiful women are waiting for the man to pick, he will not stop his ‘hunting’ footsteps? There is no better, only relatively suitable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, but the company’s customers are not the only ones who can afford it. So once you get into a relationship with him, you will find that one day his eyes drift away again.
Eight, he will often compare you to his former wife.
He misses his ex’s cooking when you don’t cook well; he misses his ex’s diligence when you don’t do your chores well enough; and he misses his ex if you don’t perform well enough in sex. The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of your ex.