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What are the best ways to get your heart racing?
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“Body language” often conveys more information and expresses more emotion. According to researchers, on a first date, 55% of a relationship’s first impression depends on appearance and “body language,” 38% on speaking skills, and only 7% on the content of what is said.
But it is possible to win each other’s affection with a few simple psychological tricks (even if the conversation is only about the weather). That is, our bodies must be able to send some implicitly positive signals to each other. It is important to note: first, never stand with your arms crossed in front of the other person; second, emulating the other person’s posture helps one experience a sense of closeness.
II. Experiencing fear together
Psychological research shows that if a person is in a very excited state of mind when meeting someone, it dramatically increases their chances of getting a sense of romance.
In a 1970s experiment called the Swinging Bridge, psychologists Adul Aron and Dan Dutton found that if a man met a woman on a constantly swaying bridge, he felt more sexy and romantic – to a significantly greater degree than if he met her on a low, stable bridge. When dating a woman, the feeling. So a single experience in a playground has the potential to dramatically increase our adrenaline levels, making it easier to increase our happiness in marriage.
Also, couples are more likely to feel affection for each other after watching a suspenseful or tense movie together than after watching a bland movie. As for the reason, no one can explain it yet. Perhaps the increased adrenaline levels caused by fear play a key role.
III. Shared laughter
Humor is always high on the list of factors that lead to affection between men and women, and experiencing laughter together creates a sense of closeness between strangers.
A classic experiment was conducted by the American psychologists Adour and Dandatong. They had two strangers who didn’t know each other do some playful activities together, such as learning to dance.
During this time, they blindfolded one of them and had the other hold a straw (to prevent them from speaking freely). Although the sounds these two make seem a bit silly, it turns out that love does come with laughter. So, jokes are also indispensable in marital relationships to improve marital happiness.
IV. Pick the right music to accompany you
Studies by American psychologists show that soft and simple music is the most helpful for relationship development. Tests have shown that soft music is more likely to make women feel good about men, while jazz in complete silence is likely to have the opposite effect.
V. Using the “love cure-all”
Animal tests have shown that posterior pituitary hormone injections can make male rats feel a strong attachment to females. Researchers say that physical exercise also boosts dopamine levels in the blood to make people feel happy.
In addition, the body is able to synthesize a substance called feniletilamin (commonly known as the “love molecule”), which can also make people excited and experience an inexplicable sense of well-being. Chocolate is also known to be rich in feniletilamin, a love molecule.
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Eyes are a very effective means of expressing emotions. Research by psychologists has also proven that the eyes are indeed a very powerful weapon. Tests have confirmed that when two strangers are sitting opposite each other, looking into each other’s eyes is far more likely to produce closeness than looking at other parts of the other person’s body.
Related psychiatrists believe that when we look at each other with someone, the area of the brain associated with receiving rewarding information is stimulated, resulting in a favorable feeling for the other person.