What am I going to do to attract him again? If he’s not paying much attention to you anymore, then you might need to make some changes. So women need to learn to “change their face” so that men will love you more.
Program #1: The Food Planner
Most women think that cooking and doing laundry every day is what makes them a good woman and will naturally be recognized by men. The fact is, this is wrong. 20-year-old women occasionally appear in front of the pot, playing the role of sexy little witch is very attractive to men.
But a woman in her thirties who is always around the pot is easily seen as a full-time housewife.
Detergents can make your hands rough and fumes can accelerate the aging of the skin on your face, all of which should be taken very seriously and not ignored. Maybe you think you are a great cook and cook very good meals; you also think you wash dishes very well and wipe the kitchen spotlessly. However, men’s thinking is very intuitive, you do the dish again, no outside restaurants do delicious; bowl washed clean, and he did not bring a magnifying glass to see, do not know that you pay for this hardship. If you let him see you around the pot stand every day after work, and if you then aptly issue a few complaints, it will mean that you are no longer the woman he appreciates.
So the smart housewife has to persuade her husband to get in the kitchen often, no matter how bad his cooking is, you have to praise him and attach a fond kiss, so that he can gradually develop a sense of accomplishment and willingly get in the kitchen for you. And your charm must be more reflected in the preparation of the meal before. You can make the dining atmosphere very romantic, and then wear gorgeous or sexy pajamas, so that he unforgettable meal this moment, and even in the meal began to think about the wrong. Although a couple of ten years, to create such an atmosphere often.
Program #2: “Columnist”
In some families, the husband will not be very happy with his wife’s personality. This is the time when some women will change themselves to suit their husbands’ ideas. Some husbands feel that their wives are always quiet every day, as wives will reluctantly turn into noisy birds when they would have liked to read quietly, and from time to time learn to do the Iman-like, tired of the heart only they know. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
But you may not have thought that there will come a time when you can’t satisfy his desires, and that’s when the family war will break out. Too much change can also make a man feel that you, the woman, have no position and can even make him feel that you are vulgar. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Program #3: Financial Advisor
“Why didn’t you pay your salary this month?” “Say, what’s with the $2,000 in the shoebox?” When you ask such questions, how can you not make the man in front of you annoying? You know full well that you couldn’t spare the cosmetics and bought him a tie instead.
You couldn’t bear to buy fruit and instead bought him a beer. You know better than that that you haven’t spent any of this money and are saving it up with the intention of buying him a car. But if you don’t tell him, he won’t know. He’ll just think you know how to ask him for money and that you only like money. This is not good, when you are confronted by money, you are no longer the lover, but his enemy. When money is the cause of confrontation, your marriage is a prison.
Save money, but don’t lose your charm by saving money. The right amount of money should always be spent, such as weekend excursions, watching movies, buying household gadgets on a daily basis, and occasionally going to coffee houses and bars with him, all of which can improve the quality of life and increase your charm quotient.
When a smart woman pays for a man’s bill, she must let the other person know, for example, when you buy clothes with him, you must emphasize that the clothes are your choice and you have a good eye; when you eat together, you must ask the other person if he likes the food you choose. Even when you ask him for this month’s salary, you have to politely express: “Honey, in order to save money to buy a private car, let’s both be a little tighter this month.” When he hands you his paycheck, you can reward him by going to a movie together or buying him a small model car, but of course, you treat him and let him pay for it.
Program #4: Social activist
Some women love to watch Korean dramas, so they learn from Korean women who used to stay at home on weekends. But Korean women don’t all stay at home to raise their children, they tend to stay at home when they are older. When the tired man came home to see you watching TV, if you send him a bitter face, this is simply a “perfect match”, want not to hate you are difficult. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Thirty is not the end of a woman’s social activities, but the beginning. 30 has the ability to interact with people and a mature charm that allows a 30-year-old woman to have more friends. 30 is a woman who has the leisure and money to be more autonomous, more uninhibited, and can have more “nutritional oils ” to infuse the soul: tea, yoga, listening to music, dancing the national standard, these are 30-year-old women should be involved in the activities. When you make tea in front of him, when you occasionally play the guitar, when you give him a tango in a dance costume in front of him, when you stretch to make two yoga poses, how can he not be charmed by the you in front of him?
The idea is to have two more male friends at social events and to know that marriage is also about following the “law of the jungle”: when there are no wolves, the deer are lazy and die early; when the wolves appear, the deer keep running to stay alive. The first thing you should do is to add two “good wolves” to your marriage in time.
Program #5: Clothing Stylist
Glamorous clothes can add to a woman’s glamour quotient. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your clothes, and you can do it in a way that you can. In fact, this is not the case. Wearing clothes is like eating, eating a kind of food every day, must be unbearable, and one day you find that this kind of food is not properly cooked, this time you will completely reject this food. The most important thing to do is to give a man a visual cooking and “serve” him every day.
By dressing up regularly, you’re sending him a positive signal about life, and who can’t be satisfied with a wife who loves life so much? The more you look good, the more confidence you will have in yourself, and the more confident a woman is, the more beautiful she will be.