Relationships can make people grow up, and when you start to grow up and look at love with a mature eye you will find that the worries you once had are now insignificant. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The change from being overloaded to being lighter is a true reflection of the change in yourself.
1. Even if he doesn’t contact you today, he won’t be upset
Do you have information anxiety, every now and then you want to check your phone, Facebook, facebook, etc., to see if anyone has left you a message in the newsletter, and if not, you get very frustrated and keep fiddling with your phone or updating your status, expecting others If not, you will be very disappointed, keep fiddling with your phone or updating your status, looking forward to others’ messages and comments, hoping that more people will pay attention to you. Obviously, you are lonely, and this loneliness comes from inside. You haven’t learned how to live with loneliness and you haven’t realized the preciousness of your time. Especially those in love, more typical. In fact, what men are most afraid of is the “series of life-threatening calls”, constantly attacked with information bombs and phone calls, so that people can not breathe. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. His appearance is no longer so important
A large percentage of mature, large women have withdrawn from the appearance society, and it is the inside that is more important than a man’s appearance. The company’s reputation for excellence in the field of business management is also very important. I remember when I was a young girl, talking to my mother about marrying someone, my mother always said not to pay too much attention to the appearance of the man, but to live a real life. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I can’t say 100%, but many handsome and dashing men, most of whom have unstable personal lives, are so fraternal and philandering that they always leave the women around them hurt and don’t stay long. There are also some skin good men simply is a woman killer, of course, which person did not love scum when they were young? It is those frustrating pain, in order to let people morph into more mature. The woman treats herself the same way, not only on the outside to try to become beautiful, but also to become strong inside, sensual and rational coexist, to be the most sexy and charming mature woman.
3. No longer obsessed with anniversaries
For many women who are independent at heart, in the end, anniversaries are just a formality. When you no longer force your lover to spend holidays with you, you can say that growing up, your state of mind has changed. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
4. Try not to quarrel, and solve problems rationally and calmly
Siao S once said, “A marriage can last 10 years longer if you say one less word when arguing”. Avoid head-on conflicts and leave some room for maneuvering in the minds of both people. Quarrels are a double-edged sword that can hurt feelings, but can also deepen the bond between two people. It’s important to hold the right scale, and be careful about what you say on impulse, because what you say in those few minutes may not make up for it for a long time afterwards. But the grievances that have been piling up for a long time are like garbage, and they also need to be dealt with appropriately. Staying rational and calm, sitting down and talking with each other in a gentle atmosphere makes it easier for people to become more honest.
5. To fall in love with the premise of marriage
Youth is short, how to complete a lifelong event in a limited time and with high efficiency is the key. Once you talk about marriage, there are many objective factors that have to be considered, but of course, the most important premise is that you love him deeply and want to be with him forever. This is not the same as getting married before you have to set up all the household items, but must be in a responsible mood to love, which is also respectful of both sides. Communicating this mood to him, letting him understand what you think, and making him realize that he should take your relationship seriously is the mature way for adults to approach relationships and marriage.
6. No more crying over relationship worries
No more being so overwhelmed and frightened in your heart as before. To grow up with love, you must have shed countless tears before. When you find that he can’t help you get rid of these bad emotions and give you a stable sense of security, have you realized that happiness is grasped in your own hands and not something that a particular person can give? Being hurt in love is not a bad thing, let your heart to the most pain, and then you will be immune. The more women who don’t shed many tears, the more the occasional tears flow out of the man’s heart, quickly change their image of crying and crying, laughing at all love problems. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
7. Seeing pictures of him with his female friends or porn movies on his computer no longer feels like a shock
When you see this, do you get angry? The fact that you are not easily jealous is one of the benchmarks for judging a person’s maturity, but of course, when we are really in love, we can’t hold back our feelings. But never rise to the height of questioning, suspicion, arguing over such things, will affect the feelings between you, once you become a problem and burden in his mind, the relationship may be in jeopardy. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
8. Stop believing in “forever”
Eternal love must exist, and through time, it may have eventually become a mutual affection. You depend on each other, your life is uneventful, your daily schedule looks similar, and yet you are indispensable to each other. Even if the hand holding each other no longer has passion, just like the left hand pulling the right hand, however, either of the hands are not likely to be cut off and given up. The most beautiful thing is to keep life going smoothly. The most important thing is that it is not possible to be in love “forever”, but it is possible to always be warm.
You can keep a child’s heart and see the world with pure eyes, and still choose not to grow up, obsessed with dolls and pretty candy desserts, obsessed with anime, it’s all right, but don’t turn into an escape, that’s the biggest difference between a child and an adult. Learn to take charge of your own life, after realizing the cruelty of real life can still maintain a childish heart, love life, love yourself, which is invaluable. I believe you can do it, my dear.